Celebrity Relationships Decoded: Why Robert Pattinson Dumped Kristen Stewart post image

I’ll be honest, I’m not all that invested in celebrities.

Quite frankly, I find our culture rather perverse about how we have this fascination and feeling of entitlement to dive into anybody’s private lives no matter who they are. Whether they’re politicians, celebrities, or whoever.

I really don’t know what’s real and what’s not when it comes to celebrities. However, as a relationship writer, I do think there are lessons to be learned from these relationships that unfold on a public platform.

Bottom line, I’m not a celebrity gossip columnist and I don’t aspire to be.

However, I do see an opportunity to share some good relationship lessons here, so I’d like to discuss this very public Rob Pattinson and Kristen Stewart breakup and share some insight as to what went wrong, and why their relationship was doomed from the moment she got caught cheating.

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Ask a Guy: How to Get Him to Text You Back post image

OK… I’m confused. How do you get a guy to text you back?

The guy I’ve been dating for the last two months used to text me back right away whenever I texted him. He would send me sweet messages, he’d never leave me hanging, and he seemed really into me.

However, for the last two weeks I feel like something changed. Now there have been times where he won’t text me for a day or two and when we do text, I feel like it’s always me initiating the conversations. It went from him showering me with attention and affection to him not responding to texts for hours.

I don’t know what changed but I have this horrible feeling I screwed something up or maybe I’m bugging him. I’ve eased up on the texts (just in case I was overwhelming him), but for the times I really want to hear from him can you tell me how to get him to text me back?

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Ask a Guy: When a Guy Loves You… post image

Do you have any advice on how to tell if a guy loves you?

I’ve been seeing this guy for almost a year know and though he says he loves me, I just can’t tell if he’s just saying what I want to hear or if he really does love me.

He’s not the type of guy to gush with lots “romantic talk”, but it’s more than what he says that makes me worried… sometimes I feel like if I didn’t text him or set up dates, he’d disappear or forget I even existed at all.  Is it possible for a man to say he loves you and not actually be that into you?  How do you know if a guy loves you?

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How to Leave Your Things At His Place (Without Freaking Him Out) post image

There’s nothing better than an evolving relationship and that point when you start spending more time at each other’s places.  And a lot of times, that involves the girl spending more time at her beau’s place, which always brings up the dreaded new relationship dilemma: leaving necessities at his place.

You’re not ready to move in, but you’re past the occasional sleep over and you start craving the simple things in life that you’ve become so accustomed to.  It’s now time to start leaving things at his place.

Here are 5 tips to help you do just that without freaking him out.

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Ask a Guy: Long Distance Relationship… How To Make It Work? post image

I’ve been with my boyfriend for the past year and nine months. We have been in a long distance relationship for the last three months.

Prior to being in a LDR, we did everything together – we would see each other almost every day and talk all the time. We were always comfortable together and the relationship was always very loving.

Recently, I have started to fear that he’s slipping away. I can’t tell if it’s just me being crazy or if this is my instincts picking up on him losing interest… Can you please tell me how to make a long distance relationship work?

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Ask a Guy: When a Guy is Jealous… post image

I’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 months and he’s been acting more and more jealous.  At first, I found it sweet, but this weekend he snooped through my phone and accusing me of talking to other men.

I can tell you with complete honesty that I haven’t talked to any other guys… the thought doesn’t even cross my mind.  I kept telling my boyfriend that I’m only interested in him, but he seems cold and withdrawn now.  It’s like I’m being punished for a crime I didn’t commit.

Is this normal jealousy or is this something beyond?  Can you tell me what to do when a guy is jealous?

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