Nothing ever happens

Well. ..I took the Initiative and messaged a guy on pof. he’s good looking and his name is. …Frank !

will see if he replies .

Hope you feeling better Celeste.

I’m sure J is very grateful.

I’m tired too. It’s the season.

I need a solution. my son has mild adhd. He can’t do rules or realise the consequences of his actions. my family and his dad have had enough and all kicked him out..mainly for giving cheek and driving them crazy. my sister has now had enough and wants him out for Xmas.

I have nowhere for him to go. He gets money each week from the govt but it’s not enough to rent an appt…pay bills and eat food.

He left school at 15 so has no qualifications. He can’t hold down a course to get a qualification. The state won’t help him get housing. I enquired. He has to go into a homeless hostel for 6 mths to qualify and i don’t want to see him reduced to that… hanging out with drunks and druggies.

The new house I bought has no heating and is damp and i have no money to renovate it. I applied for a small loan…which I won’t know about till mid year and I’m expecting a feck off on that anyway. I don’t really have the money to hep him out with renting or for both of us to rent.

The only solution I can think of is to pack him off to New house and make the best of it…it’s better than being homeless. and try to renovate house bit by bit.I stay with my sister…If I can stick her… and pray a job transfer comes along quick. super quick. ha ha ha. I go over to new house each weekend and make sure he is alive. meanwhile.. He IS learning how to be self sufficient. He will just have to live like a tramp for a while.

He honestly hasn’t the sense god gave him to cope on his own.

or…I suppose we can try to get an appt for him and I contribute to paying for it. If I got approved for the loan. ..I could get some of the house up and running over the next few months…it’s coming into summer weather soon.

Any other bright ideas are much appreciated.

He’s 20. We are Waaaay backward here compared to the USA for meds and treatments. he’s on anxiety stuff at the moment. appears to be working as he’s a lot calmer and rational. I’ve spent thousands on counselling….A waste of money. I do see improvements in him as he matures.

anyway.. looks like I may have gotten approved for loan so it’s a start. I can get heating fixed..roof done. ..and a meter for the eye trinity so he can bloody well pay his own way.

Hi all.

Cleo.. thanks a lot for that. Made me feel HEAPS better.

I’ll be fine.. so will he.

I had a good Xmas, working on my house and with family.

I made contacts for workmen on my house, one of hem I have yet to meet.. He’s german. Typical. !

I’m destined never to get away from them these days !

HOPE you all having a good festive season.

Update: 37 year old is in the hospital. his baby mama is in labour and the baby could be born tonight or tomorrow morning …… giving him space to bond with the baby and see if anything is there. I guess if he wants to date me after that he will ask me out right? at this time i am really not sure what i want. but if he asks me out i think i will go. sigh ….. why r guys so difficult to understand.

Cleo – last year a guy came and spent the day with me when i was sick and brought some movies just to cheer me up. we were not even dating. guys r a mystery to me. dont know why they do what they do.

So..This builder guy Kevin on my new house is flirting away. It’s good to have attention. I shall see him this Saturday and let you all know if I feel more for him . It’s fun flirting ….as long as no one gets hurt.