Ask Me Anything – Sunday, December 13th @ 8 PM ET

He wants space
He blew up at me…. We been dating since March
I love him
I didn’t contact him 9 days
This was the last exchange on sat
Me-I don’t really know what to say but I am hurt, confused, and I miss you. I don’t know if things are over but I would like to know now as this is painful. If it is over, please let me know so that we can get each other’s stuff back as you feel appropriate.
Him-Hi. I’m doing ok. I can catch up or stop by on Monday or Tuesday.
Me-Ok. Sounds good. It’ll be good to catch up. I’ll wait to hear from you about Monday or Tuesday
What now

I’ve been seeing this guy over 3 years every time things get tough he wants to runaway he leaves for a couple days or hours n comes back. I’ve express how it makes me feel but nothing ever happens n I’ve caught him a few times talking to other women from the internet n saying inappropriate things n on his site in claims to be single. He says I’m the only woman he wants n he wants to marry me n make me his wife but I’m confused with all the different ways he shows me. He seem to be bipolar or something. I’m concerned cause I have 1 small child he has 4 small ones I don’t want them to think its ok to see us go back and fourth.

There’s this man at my local gym who recently just started working there. He seems to do a little more with me than the usual hi how are you small talk every time I come in. I’m interested in getting to know him better but I don’t know how to make that first move. So my question is, what’s the best way to make the first move on a man but not embarrass myself either?

Also, a co-worker and I have been flirting recently the last month or so. We’ve exchanged numbers and talk on the phone sometimes but he’s already told me that he doesn’t want a relationship right now. If we ever end up hanging out together outside of work, how do I make sure I don’t fall into the trap of FWB? And if he changes his mind about dating, how do I not let that personal relationship not affect our professional one?

I have been dating a guy for a few months never been invited to his home. He will talk when I call but most time text me and I often have to organize our date nights. Our lovemaking is amazing and he says things like he wants me to have his baby. Confused

My boyfriend lost his job and shortly afterwards left me its been 12months and he is always caring and doing things for me but wont discuss why he left me and is adamant we aren’t getting back together. I have started 2 new relationships in this time and as soon as he knows he becomes even more attentive. Even if I don’t respond he increases contacting me. I’m confused by his actions.

Been seeing a guy for four months. He was. Literally obsessed with me and made so much effort. He said he didn’t want a relationship and I agreed but he went out of his way so much for me. Did things to really show me he liked me. Once I told him my feelings changed and wanted to more, but didn’t pressure him he went cold. So I told him I didn’t want to drag my heart around so I broke it off and kissed him goodbye. We sent see or speak for over a month. Then we hung out and he couldn’t tell me enough how much he missed me and how beautiful and amazing he things I am. I tried not bribing up anything serious just wanted out first interaction tk be about having fun again. But he wanted to make a point to tell me he really does like me but he will never want a relationship from anyone. We talked all week after that and now it’s silence for three days again. Can this ever move forward or is it literally going to just drive me crazy trying? I actually told him off a little and that’s how we started talking again after a month. So he seems to like it when I put my foot down. It’s really hard for me to be interested in someone, so I really want this to work.

I’ve been a relationship for almost 6 years now. What do I need to do to get him to purpose? I do everything a wife does but I don’t want to be labeled as his girlfriend. I want more to this relationship. Any suggestions? Thank you

I’ve been talking to this guy for about two months now. At first everything was going great! We would text and talk almost every day. The longest we would go without contact is about 4 days. Then suddenly he stopped contacting me for two weeks. I did not try to contact him because I figured that if was interested he would contact me. Well he called me two days ago, and said “Wow, I have been so busy with work I didn’t even realize that it has been so long since we’ve talked” the conversation was great, no problems. He talked to me about how he got offered his dream job in another state and I told him how happy I am for him and I’m sure he will adjust well in Florida. I haven’t heard from him since. But I sent him a text the day after we talked and he didn’t respond. He has been on social media though. Should I just move on? I really like him and wanted this to work out so much.

I was with my ex for 3 years. We broke up 6 months ago. We were in a serious committed relationship. He was even looking at rings. But we got into an argument that wasn’t even that serious and he walked out on me. I just don’t understand how someone can walk out on someone they’re so in love with. Long story short, he wants nothing to do with me now. He has a new gf and has been dating her for 3 months. He still looks at my social media and even retweets me on Twitter sometimes. What does this mean if it means anything?

Hello, So.. I’ve been dating this guy for few months and I thought that things were going great.. however, he disappeared with no explanation. And now from time to time he started texting me randomly.. but it’s always been sexting.. I’m not sure what does that mean or what is he thinking? I don’t know how to just tell him that I don’t want that.. I want a real relationship that I deserve.. I’m not sure how to proceed in this case? Thank you!!

I met this man almost a year ago, and at the time he was in a relationship. Now we talk fairly regularly, facetime, texts, etc. and he expresses interest in hooking up and meeting up. He is a very busy guy (NHL player) and I am a very busy woman (Sciences student, working on applying for medicine.) We are both successful, driven, attractive people who seem to get along on more than just a physical basis. He told me 2 days ago before his game to text him “whenever I am free” and that we would “talk after his game”. He didn’t text me, and I’m wondering wether or not I should text him… I’m unaware of wether he is seeing anyone, I know he is single but not sure if he is interested in other people as well, but knowing his lifestyle as an NHLer, I am sure there are many women interested in him. So basically, how should I maneuver my interactions with this guy? Thank you!

I have a friend that has been helping me through a tough situation. We’ve kissed twice but haven’t gone further than that. I’ll text him sometimes with no response, but other times he responds immediately. On the phone the other day, he said he sees the texts and reads them but gets caught up and doesn’t always respond. He has told me he liked me (but that was really only during the unexpected make out sessions) but we aren’t in a place where anything can happen right now, I feel like I’m getting mixed signals, but also think maybe he’s trying not to get stuck in “friend zone.” What do you think?

Hi Eric/Sabrina. There is a guy I work with. He stares at me, he seems to pay attention to what I do, he keeps in contact with me, he confides in me. He seems to like me at some level. What makes a guy like a girl enough to ask her out? What are signs he will?