Let’s talk about why a guy you’re seeing or are in a relationship with is suddenly ignoring you.
Here is how it usually goes: the relationship gets off to a great start, you text and talk on the phone and hang out and it seems like this is going somewhere, and just as you’re settling in and enjoying the bliss of being in a blossoming relationship, he abruptly pulls back.
He may fade away slowly or just completely ignore you or “ghost,” and you have no idea what you did to cause this.
There is nothing more frustrating than not knowing where you stand with someone. If he doesn’t like you, fine, that hurts but you can move on. When you’re stuck in this gray zone it makes you crazy and sends your brain into overdrive.
The human mind doesn’t like not knowing so we spin and spin hoping to come to some sort of conclusion. All that spinning gets you nowhere, it just makes you dizzy and even more off-kilter.
Don’t worry, I’m going to break it all down so keep reading.