I’ve been with my boyfriend for 5 months. He’s 23 and I’m 26. When we started going out, I was applying for grad school and he was going to be traveling for a couple of months. He said if I missed him a lot he would send for me and I was welcome to join him at any time.
About three months into the relationship, I told him I really liked him and he said, “Who says I’m coming back?” (Big change from just a couple of months…)
Now he wants to see if he can live in NZ permanently. I told him I’d miss him and he said he’d miss me too, but wanted to try it as it was something different. When I said I wanted to come with him, he said that he thinks he’s too immature for me and doesn’t know what he wants in life.
What’s the deal?