Let’s talk about a common term that gets flung around in the realm of relationship advice: the chase.
The chase isn’t about playing games or following rules or manipulating a man into wanting to be with you. If you go about it like that, you will always lose.
Why is it important for a man to chase you? Well, it goes back to basic biology. Men are hunters, it’s in a man’s nature to want to pursue… and unfortunately, a lot of women have taken that away from him by going after him hard… which actually only succeeds in scaring him away.
Maybe going after things aggressively has served you in other areas of your life, maybe it got you where you are in your career, but it won’t help you attract and keep a high-quality guy.
The chase is what gets a man to pursue you. Pursuing you leads to investing in you and this is what causes him to really fall for you.
This is how it’s done.