You like the guy?
Cool. Assume he thinks you’re hot. Assume he thinks you’re sexy. Assume he finds you interesting. Assume he’d love to go on a date with you. Assume that you two would get along and that he’d love to have a girl like you as his girlfriend.
Then simply talk to him and hang out with him. Give him enough space to reach for more of you, but don’t hide in the shadows silently analyzing his micro-movements and decisions. Just interact with him and any time he makes a move towards wanting more with you (such as doing something together, talking later or anything), you simply react positively. Smile. Say yes. Show him a “green light” in return.
I’ve said it many times: People love to make dating and relationships complicated.
Relationships are not complicated. I’m telling you.
Forcing a bad match to work out… yeah, that’s impossible. Believing you can read someone’s mind… that’s just a foolish mistake and also impossible. Wanting to be in a relationship when you’re unhappy and don’t like yourself… well that’s a recipe for disaster.
Relationships though… for what they actually are… are not complicated. Not at all.
Assume he wants you, talk with him and don’t get hung up on any one guy until he clearly, directly and unambiguously tells you that he wants you in the way that you want him.
It’s that simple – there’s no forcing, no mind-reading, no filling of an emotional void…
A lot of people search far and wide for the exotic answer… or the “catchy answer”…
And as a result, people get tricked into believing the answer to all relationship questions is that he just isn’t into you or that men want a “bitch”… Don’t even get me started on the nonsense that’s out there.
Keep things simple. The stuff that actually works in relationships is simple… not glamorous, complex or hard to understand.
Hope it helps,