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7 Online Dating Mistakes To Look Out For

Recently I was coaching a woman on how to write her online profile. Before we wrote the profile, I asked her to send me her four best pictures. I asked her to do this because men are as visual as Scooby Doo on steroids.

The first thing they do when they see your profile online is NOT read about your trip to Italy last summer . . . they want to see how hot you are. Keep in mind that every man has different taste in women, so what is “hot” to one man will be totally different than what is “hot” to another.

So I explained this to my client, and I asked her to send me her four best photos — pictures that represent who she is in her life. What she sent me is mistake #1 of the biggest mistakes women make online.

Click over to Your Tango to find out the 7 biggest online dating mistakes women make.

Written by Sabrina Alexis

I’m Sabrina Alexis, the co-founder, and co-editor of A New Mode. I love writing relatable, insightful articles that help people understand relationship dynamics and how to get the love they want. I have a degree in psychology and have spent the last 10 years interviewing countless men and reading and studying as much as I can to better understand human psychology and how men operate. If you want to get in touch with me, hit me up on Facebook or Instagram.

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Sharon Renyard

I’d never do online dating again!! The first one I met last September I saw regularly for about a month then found out he had a fiancée, the second I met in October & he lied about having a wife & daughter who were killed in a car crash (it never happened) & the third & final one has given me genital herpes which I now have to live with for the rest of my life (he’s the only one I’ve had unprotected sex with since 2012 when I was married) – needless to say I feel like I may as well join a convent :(

Reply March 30, 2017, 6:41 am


I have moved in with my boy, its been 3 months now.. I have recently come to realize that while I am not around he emails n chats with girls from his country (russia), I knew he use to log on it but only to cht with his parents he said, n I belived in him. when confronted he promised he would never repeat cause he lovs me and wants no one but me in his life.. but what also upset me the most is that though he says his parents know we are living together there is not one picture of us on his page or mention of him being in a relationship.. obviously cause if he had why would the girls flirt with him..
he begged for me to stay n cried his heart out cause I was too upset n had packed my bags.. :'( but I want to give him another chance and see what happens..
I love him, but I don’t know how to handle this situation.. I want him to acknowledge me in his life to his friends and family however possible.. in this case online or whatever cause he doesn’t have them here, they r back home in Russia.. pls advice.. what do I do n how..

Reply February 18, 2014, 1:38 am

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