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Honeypie.
Caroline
My boyfriend always seems to verbalize, whenever he finds a woman attractive, by saying:she is super pretty, decent, has a nice figure. And he does it in front of me, does he do it to make me jealous or have a reaction in me?
Do you feel ok with your man doing this ir not? Do you find ur disrespectful or as if he was strutting your face that your not good enough for him or even meet his standards 100%.
Why does he do this? Any reason in particular?
Raven
He’s a dope!
I don’t think he does it to goad you- he’s just dumb…
Can I ask your ages?
Does he compliment You?
& how often?
Asayi
I do think it’s disrespectful if he always does it when he finds another woman attractive.
I don’t know why your bf behaves like that, but you should tell him that it bothers you. If he’s a little bit considerate towards your feelings, he’ll stop.
Caroline
@Raven, yeah he does compliment me, he is 48 and I am 31.
Not crazy
If you completely trust him and he still shows how much he is into you, it should not be a big deal.
Voicing it probably is a dumb idea on his part. If you’re comfortable with your own looks you could just agree with him, change the subject, or point out her flaws.
If it bothers you, say something.
Deanna
What if he doesn’t compliment me & still does those things in public like that?
Honeypie
Does he treat you well? Do you think he’s a letch and after other women? How does he act when he does it- is it obvious or is it a comment with no emotion attached?
These are the things to consider in the context of him doing it. So you think he wants you to get jealous?
In any case I sure wouldn’t like it at all. But his reasons and motive may not be out of disrespect to you so can you talk to him and say why do you so that? I find it makes me feel disrespected and my feelings not considered.
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