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    Keeli

    So I was talking to a guy I met at work.

    We were talking for a little over a week- he was consistently calling and texting during that time. I would also reciprocate. Fast forward to a week after that. We messaged on Monday of last week, but he said he was at work and he didn’t call at his usual time. no biggie. the following day, I heard nothing from him. no call, no text. the day after that was the same thing. In my head I was thinking he lost interest or something so best to leave it alone. Against my better judgment, I messaged him, he said he was good and he was tied up at work but he would call me later that day. He did no such thing.

    The following day I saw him at work, he said hi to me but then was trying to have a conversation, I didn’t entertain it. Later that day I saw him again and he was doing the same thing, my response was the same. He later called me, I missed the call and didn’t call him back till 2 days later. In all honesty I was thinking if it even made sense to call him back. When I did call back, we didn’t talk for long, he said he would call me back again. of course he didn’t call back. the following day I blocked him. But I am seriously trying to understand what happened cause this honestly struck me out of nowhere. and I think I have been ruminating on it because I dont know exactly what happened. what do you guys think?

    #943887 Reply
    Tammy

    Best to keep him blockd. Not a gud idea to date men at work.

    #943912 Reply
    Mary

    Don’t give it any thought and move forward. When a guy is interested in you with good intentions, it is quite obvious and there is no confusion.

    #943947 Reply
    mama

    He was doing what I call flaky flirting (just flirting with no intention). He wasn’t invested in building on any potential spark. Nothing wrong with that but if that’s all it is with a bunch of games back and forth, it’s not going to go anywhere.

    If you want something more serious, maybe it’s good that you blocked him. Move on and towards what you are looking for.

    People show you who they are by what they do, not what they say. Pay attention to that.

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