Please help..

i think you know what is right and what is wrong. you have to decide now what you should be doing.

@Raven – In fact, I have talked to him about this issues a few times in a tactful manner so as not to hurt his ego and stuff. However, he always brush me aside and “pretending” not to hear me. Morally, I know I shouldn’t do this (look for my fwb). But I also have my needs. I felt that he always being able to “release” his tension but he frequently left me high and dry which I have been enduring it. I have wanted to seek advice from a love/sex therapist but he insists not to and does not see the need to.

if you have already discussed this with your bf, and he doesn’t want to even try, you are left with no choice but to start thinking on the lines of moving on. there is no future to this relation.

You can’t just date the pieces of someone you like and ignore the parts you don’t like. You’re sexually incompatible and it’s a dealbreaker. Game over. Break it off. There’s no justification for cheating on him.