If I stop texting him first and chasing him will he initiate contact?


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    Jade

    Sometimes he seems interested and sometimes not. I do seem to be the one chasing. I always text first and he always replies. If I stop do you think he will intimidate contact or come around more?

    #693620 Reply
    Jade

    Initiate contact sorry for you typo.

    #693622 Reply
    Raven

    What do you have to lose?

    #693625 Reply
    peggy

    Hi-stop all contact. If he does not reach out in a week,forget him. If he contacts but does not ask you out very soon,then forget him. If you do not hear from him-the answer is obvious! Good luck.

    #693630 Reply
    Jade

    Thanks guys. Y’all are right. I’m cutting contact and seeing what happens. At this point I have nothing to lose anyway.

    #693682 Reply
    Hannah

    He’ll contact you if he’s interested. If he doesn’t, you’ll know he’s not interested and at least you can move on.

    #693726 Reply
    Anne

    Is this a man you know, have met in person? Or a texting thing? If you have nevmet him, assume he’s texting others whom he has never met.

    Have you ever been on a date with him?

    #693741 Reply
    Jade

    I’ve been on a date with him. He is shy. He hadn’t been on a date in 4 years before me. He has shared custody of his kids and he does stay very busy.

    #696149 Reply
    John

    Good advice above. Let us know what happens.

    Never pursue a man.

    #696170 Reply
    alia

    Whenever I’ve pursued a relationship in the past, it’s always been that they didn’t want anything, so they would have an excuse to leave or not be serious or committed, etc. etc. If he is this shy, there is no way he wants to be your boyfriend. Leave him alone.

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    Sandy

    Depends if you still want to chase someone that doesn’t seem to be that interested. Do you think he’s worth it?

    #696188 Reply
    Emma

    Only one way to find out. Stop contacting him. That will give you your answer.

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