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  • #715818 Reply
    Danna

    Hi anonymous

    He is cheating dear. I’m sorry. He is not proud of you and he is hiding you. Leave this evil person. You deserve someone who’ll show you off and respect you.

    #715842 Reply
    peggy

    Yeah-all these guys are jerks. MOA

    #717024 Reply
    Jay

    My fella is exactly the same , he will blantenltly watch other much younger girls , tell his mates what he would like to do to them, pays other women compliments , turn his back on me while he watches them etc . I have been with him 4 years now and it’s wearing thin . We live together and he texts me lovely things , tells me he loves me etc, but never to my face!
    I’ve spoken to him several times about how he makes me feel, degraded, second best ,fat, old etc . He just says it’s all in my head and I’m his soul mate , he does not want anyone else and it’s just banter ,, but it’s hurtful,upsetting and makes me feel like I’m nothing to him when we are out . Sadly ,very recently I have been taking a step back and thinking about myself instead of what he’s doing,who he is talking to etc as it’s making me jealous and paranoid, which before I met him was something I never felt. I think it’s time for me to leave 😧

    #718832 Reply
    Susan

    I recently felt the sting. Normally he will talk about women and how it would be so hard for men to keep their hands to themselves. He has no problem keeping his hands to himself when it comes to me. This particular day we were riding in a car full of friends to a football game, the driver was driving erratically and the ac wasn’t working. Complicating things the driver had surgery and wasn’t supposed to be driving. The driver’s girlfriend was in the passenger seat complaining of this. It was a pretty intense situation. My boyfriend of 3 years blurted out “At least the cheerleaders will make it worth my wild to go to this thing and I’ll have seats in a perfect position to look at them.” I couldn’t believe my ears.

    #721767 Reply
    Patti

    I have been w my bf 15 years we met when we were both married, now both divorced and living together 4 years now , he always had a wadering eye and i knew that , but past few years he doesnt compliment me but makes it a point of making sure i know he’s checking out other women!!! WTF is wrong w these guys , people tell me all the time how beautiful i am n i dont let it go to my head n he hears it to n try’s taking my compliments!!! Such a moron and im so sick of this alcholic loser n looking to get away asap!!!! Sick of him trying to push me down due to his own insecurities!!! He sucks!!!

    #721773 Reply
    Raven

    Get out of this situation… What are you waiting for?!

    #721796 Reply
    Yup

    He cheated with you and now he is cheating on you. It’s called karma.

    #721798 Reply
    Phillygirl

    So let me get this straight, you were both married and you say “he always had a wandering eye and i knew that” and you are now surprised he isn’t Mr. Wonderful.

    I’m sorry, but over half the issues on this forum are due to poor boundaries, low or no self-esteem, and zero standards.

    You got EXACTLY what you picked. SMH

    #727226 Reply
    Padmini

    IT IS THE HUSBAND’S OBLIGATION TO TELL HIS WIFE ALL THE TIME THAT SHE IS BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    #732516 Reply
    Onyx’s Pain

    My husband can easily tell other women on social media that they are beautiful. However, regardless of much I try, the only complement I get is “you look nice” … and that’s after I phish for it. Everyone else tells me that I’m beautiful, but he doesn’t. I told him that it makes me feel insecure and that he doesn’t find me attractive, but nothing changed. Then, he’ll turn around and say that I’m being too sensitive. I love him, but I don’t know what else to do in order to get through to him.

    #732544 Reply
    Emma

    Nothing you can do, if he doesn’t find you beautiful you won’t make him say it. Some men feel it is below them to do that.

    Competition. Men need competition.

    Instead of being upset and insecure, telling him how he hurts you. Act like men do. They take action, they don’t sulk. Start flirting around and do it right in front of him a couple of times. You’d have a very different conversation then, I promise LOL

    #734543 Reply
    Bee

    I put up with this kind of garbage for over 10 years being married and things just got worse over time. He would be flirty with some of the woman in front of me as well and text woman. I divorced him and now with someone who tells me that I am beautiful constantly and is so caring about me – and my ex is alone posting sad memes on FB about his heart being broken. WTF ever.

    #743958 Reply
    Brie

    My husband admitted to an emotional affair with someone then went on to say he was attracted to many others through his life. He told me he can not give me the same attention as them because they are beautiful and I am not. He never tells me I am beautiful Married 40 years. Need advice

    #743961 Reply
    Anne Ohio

    Brie if you need advice start a new post. This is old and people have to read through old posts to get to you.

    #760854 Reply
    Sandra Carter

    My ex husband never told me l’m pretty yet guys l dated after him always said it. One bf told me he always wanted to date a model or Playboy Bunny. He always called me gorgeous. I just assumed my ex didn’t really love me. I’ll never know either bc he never said it.l was with him from age 25 to age 62.

    #760863 Reply
    Lala

    That’s sad. Why did you finally leave him?

    #785501 Reply
    Jaishree

    If man is compliementing other women thier was a time when he was complimenting you till you get into relationship with him. The fact is man donot value women once they know she is mine they take women for granted and thats the biggest mistake they do.complimenting other person in healthy if the other person your mutual friend ,relative or a celeb. A man who truly loves his women will never do this thing in front of her he knows what he is speaking amd what impact it would make on her .And also if he loves you he will not be interested in other women or he will get so busy with you and family ,career he will not do such things .

    #785502 Reply
    Jaishree

    ALSO WOMEN should know their worth and walk out you are not here to listen his ridiculous words if a person is making you feel insecure he is not your soul partner .he is just creating self doubt in you .women should know they deserve better n its better to remain single rather than destroying your mental health ,self esteem .

    Mod update: Hi Jaishree, thanks for sharing your thoughts with the community!

    The original topic is several years old. Certainly, if you or anyone else would like to discuss this topic, you’re welcome to start a fresh new thread. That will get more responses. Best wishes!

    • This reply was modified 4 years, 1 month ago by ANM Staff.
    #851882 Reply
    Shruti

    The same thing happened to me. Once he pointed out to someone and said she is everything I want in a woman. He told that to me. I was his girlfriend back then. Glad I dumped him. Don’t stay with someone who can not see how lucky he is to have you.

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