What is wrong with Scorpio men?

I am reading all this and find most of it hard to believe. I am a Scorpio Man Dating an Aries Woman. We have been dating for 8 months and she has gone silent on me 3 times now. The second time she broke up with me. Each time after a week she has contacted me begging for me to take her back or asking me not to hate her. She keeps claiming she is afraid of being hurt but I don’t think that’s the case. 3 Years ago she lost her husband in a bike accident. He was high on weed and went left of center. She warned me that when it got close to the anniversary of his death I might not hear from her. My problem is I have always allowed her to talk about him without being jealous, but I am supposed to be her significant other now, and she should turn to me for support. Instead, every time she goes silent I feel I have done something to cause it. She hasn’t spoken to me in 3 days now except for her responding to one text I sent her. She started a new job this week working from home and I asked her how it went on her first day. She said good then told me she dreamt about her father who passed way in January and her husband who passed away 3 years ago. I’m sorry but I have done nothing but be there for her and tell her that I love her, only for her to back off and go silent. A week after her silence and me not contacting her she reaches out with some excuse and asks for forgiveness. The second time she did this really affected me so I had to back away from my emotions so I wouldn’t get hurt by her again. Everything people have said about Scorpio Men I have eperienced from this Aries Woman.