We've been texting for 6 months and nothing?


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    HoneyClove

    My friend introduced me to her friend during the summer and I’ve been texting him everyday since. He lives about 3 hours away, a college student. At first, we’d talk allot and he came on strong. But he tells me he isn’t interested in long distance relationship. I agreed with him. But for some reason, I start feeling bad if I don’t meet his needs. At first, he’d try to Skype me every other day but about half way through the semester, he stopped skyping as much. From the beginning, he would talk immediately about our future together and say how we should do this and that together. Thing is… First time I mentioned oh let’s do that together when we meet, he automatically told me he was just kidding… So I stopped believing him. But we would still text. He’d still say good morning and good night every day and flirt with me and support me when I’m down and make it seem like we’re something more. He wants to meet me but then he also tells me the drive us too long. Honestly, I’m tired. I don’t get this guy. What is the deal here? I thought he wasn’t interested when he told me “just kidding” about meeting but then why is he keeping me on a leash like this?

    #379336 Reply
    Amy2

    Texting doesn’t make a relationship. He is stringing u along. If he is interested in meeting u, even 30 hours drive will be nothing not to mention 3 hours.

    There is nothing to read here and he isn’t complicated. His words and actions told u clearly that he only wants to e-tethering u where he can string u along without any solid efforts.

    Pls do not waste ur energy on somebody u don’t even know abd try finding a bf closer to u.

    #379338 Reply
    Raven

    Hi HoneyC, He’s not keeping you on a leash…

    You are tying yourself to a pen pal. Sounds harsh, I know, I’m sorry.
    He told you he was joking.

    I’d be tired too… Forget him & find a guy closer.

    #379342 Reply
    HoneyClove

    Thank you for the responses. I guess I just needed others confirmation on this. I just don’t understand though. My friend (the one who introduced me to him) told me he would never string me along and that he’s a good person but it’s hard to understand why he is doing this, saying one thing but not living up to his words and why do I feel bad if I’m not responding to him. I did at one point tried to ignore him but whenever I do, he’d come on strong again and flirt and try to get me to talk to him again and reassure me he likes talking to me and compliments me and all that. I really am tired.

    #379344 Reply
    Raven

    Why do you feel bad?

    He’s just a bunch of blah, blah, blah until he actually steps up & takes some action…

    #379570 Reply
    Stefanie

    Look up e-tethering.

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