Should I be upset?

Do you enjoy stirring up trouble Sisi? Tiffany gave an update and you pounced. She is capable and smart enough to make her own decisions on how she feels and what she wants from a relationship. She had an anxious moment… stop dwelling on that to satisfy your own agenda. I’m sure if there would be a time she feels things aren’t right she will take steps to do what is right for her. Unless that happens, stop being a vulture!

Tiffany, I’m sorry if I’m overstepping on your territory. I just cannot stand the assumption you or anyone else is living in clueless oblivion if you don’t knuckle under and say, “Yes, you are right. I’m nothing to him but a convenient lay.” It’s actually sick how much that is pushed. It’s the one size fits all answer instead of any real input for each individual situation.

My best friend is a senior moderator on a respected forum. Her forum has gained recognition for its content standards and has been written about in a number of publications and noted on several news programs. I’d say that gives her view some credibility. I’ve asked her to read threads on here. Her response was that the level of toxicity by some is off the charts.

Tiffany, no thanks needed but you are very welcome! Keep doing what is right for you. You have your act together and know how to balance. Keep true to yourself and best of luck in everything!

And i was trying so hard to become your best friend. And then Kim comes along😂 nah i think Kim is right. You are smart enough to make your own choices.
But i have the golden tip: buy an Xbox. It enriches your life in so many ways

Bringing this back! I saw my bf over the weekend everything was great! I asked him about the whole communication thing he admits he is terrible at it in general even more so now that hes in the academy Mon-Sat now… so just wanted to remind some of you, what may work for you WONT work for others! I was seeking help in the beginning to calm my nerves… but it only got worse from this forum until Kim and Emma :)

Thank you guys!