Sometimes he seems interested and sometimes not. I do seem to be the one chasing. I always text first and he always replies. If I stop do you think he will intimidate contact or come around more?
Hi-stop all contact. If he does not reach out in a week,forget him. If he contacts but does not ask you out very soon,then forget him. If you do not hear from him-the answer is obvious! Good luck.
Whenever I’ve pursued a relationship in the past, it’s always been that they didn’t want anything, so they would have an excuse to leave or not be serious or committed, etc. etc. If he is this shy, there is no way he wants to be your boyfriend. Leave him alone.
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