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    lola

    So my boyfriend who i’ve known over a year ended our relationship 4 days ago. I’ve been truly devastated. We had planned things for the future, he said he couldn’t ever imagine anyone else and that I was his ‘perfect’ girl. It had been quite rocky for the past couple of weeks, i’d see him, we’d argue then we’d make up. Regardless of this though I wanted t try everything to make it work. He came round 4 days ago and it was a lovely night. We chatted for hours just about life and secrets, etc..he told me he loved me and that i was everything he wanted. He apologised for arguing he said it was him with the problems, he says he has major trust issues..

    He’s a very proud man and very stubborn. He’s been cheated on in the past. Before we were exclusive he saw a message from a male friend asking me to hang out. He flipped and said that i’d never told him about this guy and that i must’ve been seeing him. I told him this was not the case, he’s a friend i’ve known for a while, we’re not close at all. We got past it and things were amazing.

    So when he ended it he brought up the trust issues. It’s so frustrating because i am beyond loyal to this guy, i adore him. I want him back so bad. After being really distant over text for the past 4 days, he finally messaged before..it erupted into a silly text message argument but then he said he’d see me tomorrow..somewhere public so we can talk.

    I’m despite to make it work but i want him to get over his trust issues. He’s a big part of my life and i want him back…how should i approach this situation…

    #779238 Reply
    Raven

    Jealous Men aren’t worth the headache…

    #779241 Reply
    Sophia

    Hi Lola.
    Why have things been quite rocky for a few weeks? What were the arguments about? And what trust was broken four days ago that made him breakup?

    When someone has trust issues it is up to them to resolve them, as even he acknowledges. Since you’re a loyal girlfriend who loves him there isn’t anything you can change to change how he feels. He needs to step up and do the work.

    That said, if he doesn’t do it soon maybe you should rethink this relationship because he’ll continue to bale, leaving you broken-hearted.

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