Ending my life…


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  • #466433

    Ms. Hopeful

    Dead Luzinha
    Thank you for this dear. I am feeling better now. This forum is gifted with amazing ladies.

    #466434

    Ms. Hopeful

    Dear Carol
    Thanks to you for the support. I’m glad and blessed with great woman who stand by me while recovering. And even Eric was very supportive too.

    #466763

    Ms. Hopeful

    Breathe, breathe, breathe!!!
    It was a day I get back to work. I have never felt this tensed in my life but I know I can handle but the feeling is different when you are caught in a situation although you already expected it. I still don’t know how to react. All the pain suddenly returned as well as the feeling of hatred. I am almost shaking, I knew this can happen since we work on same company so it’s so hard when you see the person at work.

    #467403

    redcurleysue

    Yes it is very difficult when you are confronted by the person you are having an issue with….it is hard to maintain perspective…but just focus on the things that are not all that charming about him and ask yourself…do you really really want a man who has those traits.

    Picture your life wonderful without him…and honestly it will be. Having a bad relationship drags us down….look forward to feeling joyful again without this person….and you will.

    #467427

    Teresa

    Wow,I haven’t been on here for a bit. I had to read and tell my story. So much support its awesome. Few years ago, I had a breakup. He ignored me. I felt so depressed. I tried to tell my friend but she didn’t want anything to do with my problems. That night I overdosed but a classmate took me to the hospital. After My family wouldn’t talk to me. My boyfriend was so apologetic and loving. I stopped being friends with one friend who planned the breakup. The other friend was mad at me for doing that and cut me off. Time went by, my boyfriend became heartless and didn’t care If I lived or died. It was tough and lonely. this drove people away. Now I’m not with him, I rekindled my friendship, the one that cut me off. My brothers try to understand and I’m more open about it. It does get better but you will eventually run into the same heartbreak. Now I’m a little tougher and know I can get through this. I didn’t have anyone before, just my mother who has now passed. I’m going through a heartbreak now and depression. I have loving friends and brothers that understand because I tell them. I need them and they need me. Not my ex who has decided he doesn’t want me. So I’m excited for my next love to come along. I have to see him at work but I just ignore, if I have to talk I will. He doesn’t deserve anything else from me.

    #473798

    Sandra

    am so blessed to have known michaelstealth you are god sent.i really appreciate working with you after you helped me discover my husband was cheating on me and all he asked for was his email and phone number, that way I was able to access all the information I needed .i am not ashamed to tell because i know alot of people need this too.
    Michaelstealth9@gmail.com is the best and assured person to run to for anything you need to fish out and any bone you wanna pick.i guaranty you.god bless you sir

    #474333

    Leila

    Ms. Hopeful! You crossed my mind today and I was wondering how you were doing? I would love to hear from you with an update of all the positive things going on in your life. I was also curious about whether or not you decided to stay at your job. I hope we get an update soon!!

    #474750

    Ms. Hopeful

    Hi everyone!!!
    My dear Leila,
    I just saw your post here and I am very thankful that you came here to know about how I am now. I was here last week to read post and advice. Coming here when I get tired or feeling sad helped a lot to me. Right now, I am still on the stage of moving on. It’s still not easy for me but I feel stronger and better now. I am still on my current job and almost everyday of my first month was always terrible. I can say that it’s not easy for me and makes it hard to move on when you see the person. He started smiling to me few weeks ago I can smile back but I don’t have plan even to think of myself being with him again.
    I was about to post something lately but I think I will say it here instead, I receive invitations of dates but I am not sure if i need to go on dating now. I want to try but I don’t want to get hurt again. But I’m also afraid to miss the chance to meet the right one.

    #475724

    Leila

    I’m glad to hear that you are doing better. My advice to you, don’t worry about dating right now, continue to work on yourself and finding your happiness within. You’ll know when you are ready to try again. If you meet someone and you are not ready, the right guy will wait for you. And trust me when I say this, that guy did not love you, not the way a woman deserves to be loved by a man. When you find love, it will be amazing and completely worth the wait.

    #476269

    SthrnBelle

    Hi Ms. Hopeful,

    So nice to hear from you! Glad you are better and I am sure you will continue to improve, even under these circumstances you are staying strong, it is not easy to see him at work. I think that for now spending time with friends and rebuilding your self esteem, doing girls programs, etc. is a better idea than dating so soon but do that when you feel ready. If you want to just casually go out to do something, ok but I think you are still too vulnerable and not over it to seriously date. Happy that you came back.

    #476461

    claire

    am so blessed to have known michaelstealth you are god sent.i really appreciate working with you after you helped me discover my husband was cheating on me and all he asked for was his email and phone number, that way I was able to access all the information I needed .i am not ashamed to tell because i know alot of people need this too.
    Michaelderck78@gmail.com is the best and assured person to run to for anything you need to fish out and any bone you wanna pick.i guaranty you.god bless you sir michaelderck78@gmail.com

    #476463

    Khadija

    ^^^ Wow Eric can we really clean up the spams? This is not a thread I want to see this on.

    Thank you in advance.

    #476475

    Speedy

    Hi Ms Sorrow. I am sorry to tell you this but you are crying over a man who is not worthy of your time or effort in any way, shape or form. You deserve someone much better and you will find him. Believe me, even if you get this guy, he will mean years of heartbreak for you. However, it will take time to get over this guy and right now, you are very upset. Even though it is normal to be upset, you should see a doctor. It sounds like you have depression and medication (such as Sertralin) may improve your mood. Good luck!

    #476484

    Ms. Hopeful

    Thank you so much for being here to know about my situation. I will get better with all your support.

    #476493

    Ms. Hopeful

    Hi dear Sthrnbelle, you’re here again thank you. How was your vacation trip? Yes, I’m not ready to go on dating right now. I keep myself busy and enrolled in a class. I go out of town too to relax. I start to enjoy life again. Btw, this ex once greeted and approach me and I just nod and smile. Still nervous but I’m okay. Thank you for being here for me.

    #476495

    Ms. Hopeful

    Hi Khadija, there are two post from Sandra and Claire. Same post. Spams.

    #476496

    Ms. Hopeful

    Hi Speedy
    Thank you, I am better now with the help of great ladies here. They never leave me. This site is amazing.

    #476497

    Stefanie

    Dearest Hope! I just dropped in now to see if there just might be a post from you and there you are right at the top just like I found you when you were in trouble. I’m so very happy that you are progressing so well. I am doing well too, returning to work next month. Your life is worthwhile. You are loved. Keep going!!!

    bestest,

    Stefanie

    #476499

    Khadija

    Hey there Ms. Hopeful! Glad to see you popping back in. Stay positive.

    #476501

    Ms. Hopeful

    Oh my, my dear Stefanie… I was about to post “Where is Stefanie?” And here you are…like an angel. I think ladies are connected in mind lol. Thank you. And I’m glad to know you are doing well too. Yes, I’m getting better now and healing. Thanks a lot again for being here until now. Please don’t get tired :)

    #476504

    Ms. Hopeful

    Yes dear Khadija, thank you for staying here too.

    #476513

    Stefanie

    I don’t post here any longer… just had a feeling to check on you. We must be psychic friends!!!

    #476529

    redcurleysue

    Hi Ms. Hopeful,

    Now is the time to slowly start to dream again. You know like when you were a little girl and your mind wandered free…free to think anything was possible. The long summer days and the warm nights…cotten candy and the fair….seeing the stars hanging heavy in the sky….the smell of Spring and later the crisp smell of autumn. Your mind and heart were light and the future looked bright with the thought that anything might happen….anything at all.

    In reality, that is where you are but your are not appreciating your position. Many women envy you right now….

    Take your precious life and dreams up again in your hands…it is a time of open promises and a bright future….at any time and around any corner.

    Think young and innocent again….breathe in life, joy and hope…..gaze upon the stars with wonderment.

    #476574

    Ms. Hopeful

    I totally agree Stefanie…thanks again and again for dropping by for me. Love yah :)

    #476575

    Ms. Hopeful

    Dear Redcurleysu

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