Is he playing games with me?

You haven’t even met the man so who cares?

I’m not even sure what your question is. People work and have lives. They can’t respond every second. It isn’t ghosting if someone takes a few hours to read/respond to a Snap/Text/Phone call. Nor does someone who hasn’t met you owe you any of their time.

If you feel like he’s ghosting and playing games, why would you want a relationship with someone like that? Wouldn’t meeting pretty much anyone else be better?

30 years old man , using snapchat at work? how attractive…he has a child but acts like he is still a child. You are boosting his ego, he is probably messaging 5 other girls at the same time.

I agree to stay on the app until about dates out. A little hint about men. Ignoring his next question altogether would likely get him to ask you out.

Tough love time… you have remarkably low standards and that is on you. Talk on Snapchat. No. Weird photos from work. No. Disappears and reappears lately. No

But the worst part is you saying you are hoping for him to want something real when ge has already demonstrated he is a man child.

We don’t get mad or frustrated. We give 0 fs to any man not our boyfriend, we are single u til he is your boyfriend, and we recognize early signs of someone unable to give us what we want… and walk away.

Going off a dating site before meeting in person carries risk that shouldn’t be ignored. I had a friend who got on WhatsApp and social media with a guy after two days of talking on the site – his idea. He strung her along for over a month before they finally met. He was not at all who he said he was. She politely declined to see him again. He wouldn’t take no for an answer. He basically stalked her for 6 months in some creepy ways I won’t get into here. She reported him to the dating site but they said nothing we can do, you have all these conversations off the site. She involved the police and he still wouldn’t stop. They told her until he threatened her life, there was nothing they could do. He finally stopped and she was able to find out he had moved out of town. It took her a full year to chill out and put the whole thing behind her. She tells everyone she meets it was not worth it, she should have not gotten so friendly so fast with him. She was flattered he seemed so interested in her and let her guard down way too soon.

Please please please take proper security measures when dating online. For me that means I don’t give out my last name, I use a nickname not my full real name on the site and I use a burner phone if I want to have a conversation before meeting. I also think some sites offer a phone service so they don’t get your real number. If I like the guy and feel safe on the first date, I will tell him my name and offer my phone number. I wait at least three dates before getting into a car with him or going to each other’s homes.

Never move off the site to just chat. Never. And make sure their profile has the validation. If he doesn’t. I ask him to validate. Bumble and hinge and match all have thar. She could have saved her issue with that.

And if he giving you the run around, you run away… that is on you to protect yourself. Here is what yoir friend missed:
A. Was his profile validated
B. Did he ask her out or just move off the site
C. Did he overengage by texting a ton
D. Did he ever speak to her on the phone
E. Was he sending her photos off the site
F. Are they creating what feels like connection without talking on the phone or meeting up.
G. Was he giving her excuses or not engaging in actually meeting up?

It is your job to screen, and I am sorry she had that experience, but it seems that happened because she is easily persuaded to be involved instead of making him earn her time and engagement.

All of this

Yikes! Seriously… I see you Angie 😉😂☺️