I initiated a fight, and he said some rude things – how do we fix this?


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    Niat

    We have been dating for 4 weeks and its been really great, we talking about being in a relationship and having the conversation. We talk about meeting siblings and friends and progressing things.

    Except for this last week we’ve been getting into a lot of fights. The last one was on me, he is having a very busy couple of weeks and i complained that i don’t see him often. And he explained it to me that he is busy but in the past guys have blown me off with that excuse so I asked again and was strict as in this is not sustainable for a relationship.

    It ended up being a fight and I realized I was wrong. I was trying to admit my mistake but he said some rude things to me in anger which were out of line.

    He and I eventually did apologize to each other at the end and I apologized once more this evening.

    I feel worried that things are on thier way to an end. We’ve gotten very close but now he feels distant. He continues to text me but he isn’t affectionate anymore. I am not sure if its the busy time or its me.

    I would like to fix it, but I don’t know how.

    Any advice?

    • This topic was modified 1 month, 2 weeks ago by  ANM Staff. Reason: The forum did some weird formatting on this post, sorry about that. I fixed it, carry on!
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    Sensy

    Yes – dump him. Treating you like that during a time he is supposed to be winning you and impressing you is a big red flag and will only get worse. He is showing you who he is. You are acting needy though, as it has only been four weeks. Let the guy lead next time. I would definitely do reading articles and books on what men look for and dating.

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    Jen123

    How often were you seeing each other before the argument?

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