How to go No Contact while living together?

Will you guys be sleeping in separate rooms? If so, I would just try to spend time in that room, when you are at home, try to leave the house a lot, and only talk about practical matters.

It’s gonna be tough. I’m so sorry. I have never been in that situation before but had a friend that was and they ended up back in bed a few times. Don’t let that happen, it will only confused the situation

Hi Mandy,

I’m sorry to hear this, it sounds very difficult. Is it possible for you to go stay with family or friends until he moves out?

May I ask why the relationship ended? Are you on bad terms with him right now? If that’s the case, the easiest way to go NC is probably to stay with someone else for the time being.

Y’all are being unsufferably literal.

I’ve been in that situation. Just use the time to focus on you, visit friends, don’t date, establish boundaries you’re both comfortable with. Is he moving soon?

I know you don’t want to hear this, but if the guy lied to you twice already, why did you allow him to move in with you a month ago? That’s a lesson in there.

Just be civil and work out the details of his move. I wouldn’t be too distant if you don’t trust him. You don’t wNt him moving out with some of your stuff in hand.

I have 3 sons

You have to put your foot down…
guess what? They respect that

Give him a week to get out

Btw crisula. How would you feel if someone gave you a week to find a place to live and move your stuff? What if the guy isn’t lying? What if she is just being insecure? Who knows? If he hasn’t been physically abusive or a threat, it isn’t reasonable to just kick someone out after you made a big deal of moving him in,

He called her crazy 3x he’s done this bs
no respect

I don’t care how HE feels…it’s the OP that is in distress..and it’s HER home. You don’t walk around on eggshells in your own home.

Move on…unless he signed a lease…which I highly doubt.

I hardly think that he will take her to court for kicking him out of her own apartment, after calling her crazy, etc…especially after a month of living there…

THIS is why men walk all over women…jeeez

“I’ll move out when I find a place to live…”
yeah, when is that..in a year?

Lord

Lol Jane, you need to finish your post on the other thread where a guy was pulling away. You stopped at i have i humch.
You assume that mandy acted like a crazy lady and was immature by moving him in and for that reason she has to sit on the blisters for a while. Hell no, it doesnt matter who caused what. He can go out of my house asap. No need to let him stay around. That only prolonges the pain of breaking up its in his best interest too

Jane…just a hunch

I bet you live or grew up in the western part of the US…. ;)

Only a pathetic wussy of a man, would take his gf to court for kicking him out…please
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He’s making her life very uncomfortable and stressed by living there and he knows it…he doesn’t care..his needs come first. She’s walking on eggshells in her own home.

He has been lying, and she has a feeling that he’s been cheating, and he is calling her crazy and probably paranoid, etc.

If it were some guy roommates that he had screwed over, they wouldn’t hesitate to tell him to get out….and he would leave.

We’re not talking about the law here…we’re talking about a guy who needs to step up to the plate, and do the right thing. Go sleep on a buddies couch ’til you find a place. If he has any feelings for her, he would leave on his own accord.
He screwed up, not her.

Ok.. crisula. So she shouldn’t take responsibility for allowing this guy and probably even asking him to move in with her a month ago, when she knew he was a liar at least twice already?

Give me a break. She didn’t ask about kicking him out. She asked about how to deal with co habitation until he is able to leave. Like I said if he isn’t harming her, than calmly work out a game plan with him and be an adult about it. What is the point in being emotional. It was a bad decision on her part to move him in. So work it out like adults.. not kids, and then move on. I was living with a guy years ago and found out he was cheating. I decided of course to break up and move out but there was no way I could just up and leave. I had to save up for a rent deposit and get furniture, since I moved in with him. We worked it out so that I stayed two months and saved up and got my own place. During that time we just kept things civil and did out own thing. was I angry with him? Of course! And I certainly was verbally abusive to him after finding out. So he could have probably kicked me out the door too. But after the drama we stopped th emotional crap and worked it out. You sound really immature for a mature woman crisula. And yes I live in the west part of the country. But grew up in the east. So your stereotype of me isn’t working,

Youre assuming a lot of things. But what i find weird is that you keep blaming mandy (thats her on screen name not her or she) for moving in with a guy after 7 months. Who cares? People make mistakes and if you can fixt them, great. Whats so weird about asking a guy you broke up with: please stay at Xx house until you find a new place?

She can’t ‘block’ him at home!!