Help!! Overreacted over. Now he won't talk to me :((

Wow…how things can change in an instant…a 3 month relationship..100% compatible 10/10 star signs…couldn’t be better…laugh…its been great..it started by a female friend..texting him a lot when he and I were together..i made a comment about his phone going off a lot..I asked him if he could do the contact in his own time not in ours…he was a little short about it..then a few days later on our date night..it started to happen again..I said c’mon..why does she need to constantly text you..he said what do you want me to do about it… I said be nice and be an adult and say your busy atm..ill chat tomoz..its not that hard! so we got into a heated argument about that..in the mean time his Ex whom he had broken up with 2 years prior and has children with…continues to find petty shit to text him about…but I don’t say anything about her…next I know she wants to meet me..i said to my partner…well if its gonna pacify her then yeah I guess so…but in good time…I don’t have an issue…she does…so yesterday we organised a catch up at his place..on my way I receive a text saying just letting you know that his ex is coming around to pick up some belongings that should have been moved last week..thats another story…so I said in a text back can she give a time? no..he said just come…and I said Ill come later? no his said just come…we will be in and out we may or may not see her…she doesn’t want to see you either…he said..I sent a reply back saying surely she can respect that its your house and you have made plans? I said it not right that she just turns up willy nilly when it suits her…so I picked up the phone and said whats going on…he went off at me..and said Don’t Come! just don’t come Go home..just go home…its all to crazy…So I did a u turn headed back home disappointed and hurt and mad…so I sent a text saying….This is why she should have moved everything in one go…to save this back and forth shit…and when You and her have sorted your emotional and your baggage out call me then…you could have said No to her…but you said No to me instaed… ill go and un pack my packed lunch now….
So day two and heard nothing from him…except he has deleted me from his Facebook….so have I over reacted?? is there anything I can do??? what should I do?im so sad…

Yes you overreacted. It is his place, and if he tells her she can come by to pick something up, then it’s really none of your business. They have children together and you are always going to have to deal with her if you are going to be in a relationship with him. I feel like it was nice of him to give you an FYI that she was coming so you didn’t walk in and get caught off guard. Instead you want her to give a time, say you’ll come later, say she should respect his house and the fact he made plans, and telling him it’s not right for her to show up whenever she wants. Then to add insult to injury you throw in the fact that she SHOULD have moved everything at once and to get this shit sorted out! OMG!! You’re trying to tell the guy after dating him 3 months how to run his life?

This is what he saw from his point of view. His ex wanted to come by and pick up some stuff. He probably said I’ve got plans. She said but it will just be a minute. He says okay, whatever. He texts you because he figures you two will leave without running into her but he gives you the head up just in case. You start telling him how to run his life and how he should have dealt with his ex and why this is so inconvenient to YOU because the world obviously revolves around you. You made this way harder than it had to be and created drama for absolutely no reason and yes you overreacted BIG time. I suggest you apologize but I don’t know if it will salvage this. The 3 month mark is usually when the guy determines if you have long term potential or not. They kind of sit back and observe and figure out if you have potential to be “the one”….he may not think this kind of drama is worth the trouble.

My problem is I’ve had this guy friend for like 5 years we’ve had a sexual relationship for a while then he got a new girlfriend we were talking and I told him I hate Valentine’s day and he asked me why and I said because you know the whole love thing boyfriends & girlfriends he took it the wrong way and thought I meant I was talking about him and his girlfriend got mad and hung up in my face I apologize to him and told him he took it the wrong way and meant that I don’t have anyone to love and that maybe someday I’ll be lucky like him and other people but he never responded to me or called me back so now I guess he doesn’t want to talk to me anymore so I’m not sure what to do.