He never asks questions

How long have you known him? If you’ve known him for more than 2 weeks and he is not asking any questions about you at all this is not good. At his age he should know what questions to ask.

I am not sure why you told him you would see others, it is quite disrespectful to tell this to a person right into their face, how would you feel if he told you this?

If you don’t really like him, stop seeing him. You are not going to build anything meaningful with a person who is not interested in you and your life.

I’ve had a really bad case of this before. He would go on about himself, his life, his family all the time! He would literally never ask anything about me or my life and if I tried to initiate it, he’d take over and make it all about him again. It was the biggest turn off and it got to me so much I kinda just had a little outburst and said something along the lines of “why do you never ask me anything about me or my life are you not interested in getting to know me at all?” and he was quite taken aback but it needed to be said. He apologised and insisted he wanted to get to know me but he quickly slipped straight back into his narcissistic ways and luckily a week later he did a disappearing act, I was devastated at the time but now a while down the line I am soooo thankful :) I’d say get rid, it’s not a male thing to not think to ask questions and get to know a woman it’s a narcissistic trait and at the first sign of it, run! I wish I had done at the time!

I was dating a guy awhile ago that was like this-not necessarily that he was “all about him”,though he was a bit-but the lack of him asking made me feel that he was not trying to know me/progress the relationship. So,because he was not asking me much,I did not like to ask him anything too personal. The upshot,as I suspected was he told me after a few months that he “did not see a future”,though he enjoyed my company. In contrast,my current boyfriend and I,talk,talk,talk and ask,ask,ask-and all is wonderful. Mr. NO ASK is not a good bet.

Hmmm…now I’m feeling confused!…I’ve been witha guy that pays me compliments…makes time to see me…I’ve also met family members…but he rarely texts me…rarely calls me…and never asks me questions about my day…past nothing….we seem to get on well apart from this…we have been together for a couple of months…and the fact that he doesn’t ask me questions has started to bother me…I want to know everything about him..I’m now wondering if he is as into the relationship as I hoped he was.

My guy is a police officer he doesn’t ask me ANYTHING but he’ll tell me when he misses me makes cute jokes about having kids super affectionate when we are together but during his regular work week …crickets….so when i asked what are his intentions with me he said i make him happy but he isn’t sure because of his job i don’t even know why i accepted that answer i don’t even know what it means but he said it in person so i was kind of 😍 and just wanted to be around him with happy vibes ….but during the work week i realize how confused i am about his interest level HELP😩

Nena, first search existing posts to see if you find an answer to your query (which I’m sure you will). I have been reading this forum for over a year, and women are always posting on here asking why guys disappear (from texting, after the 1st date, after the 5th date, from the relationship, etc). If you can’t find an answer there, start your own post so you will get more replies.

He’s probably not planning to be around that long.

Been married to this for 30 years. Always thought that if I wasn’t content it was me. What I now know, been down that road – if this is something that you are not comfortable with, do not waste your time. Do not spend 30 years with someone uninterested in you. It is a killer.

I met up with an old friend after 10yrs of no communication
at a high school reunion.
(He moved out of state.)
We were best friends for decades.
We were best men at each other’s weddings, etc.

We chatted for 2 hours at the reunion.
Later I realized that he had not asked one question that
entire time. Seriously.
He does not know how my children are doing, where I am working,
who I am dating, where I am living, what are my hobbies,
Nothing.
Yet I now know just about everything in his life.

What to do? What to think?
If our paths cross again, I’ll give him 5 minutes of my
time & move on.

People, it’s not a man/ woman thing, it’s poor manners,
poor conversational skills & just not caring about others.
Anyone can talk about himself for hours.
That’s not conversing. That is being a boor.

OK, so I met a man who presents himself as a very nice guy. We spent some time together at my place and he was very affectionate and didn’t push it. However, several times when I said that I was uncomfortable I got this “I don’t understand, what do you mean?” Seriously? When I asked him what his last name was, he told me and NEVER asked me for mine (he still doesn’t know it because he has yet to ask).

He never asked me about all the degrees on the wall, the numerous books on all the shelves, nada! No questions about me, even if I asked him points of interest. This is a sore point with me, and unacceptable. Like I tell anyone who listens – People do what they want to do!

When I received a text from him in the morning about spending another evening on my couch I informed him that I didn’t think we had enough in common. He continued to pressure me to spend the evening…no, I put an end to it.

What happens so often, I think, is we get caught up in the “romance” and ignore the signs of a bad match. Then when we are in the midst of it, we try to figure out what is wrong and how we can make it work. If we just cut the cord at the beginning when we are not as swept away, we could avoid getting confused.

Just my 2 cents worth!