Friends with Benefits without Sex?

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April 20, 2015 at 12:40 am #420130 Reply

Sarah

Hey ladies. To make it short I had a guy in mind that I thought would be good for a boyfriend but after thinking about it we both decided on nothing serious right now. However, we essentially have a friends with benefits without the sex which we both agreed on for different reasons. My question is how common does this turn into a relationship down the road or how often does it end up in ruining our friendship? I don’t want to lose him as a friend because we get along really well but I wouldn’t mind dating him officially down the road either. Should I just wait and see what happens because I do like the arraignment we have going on but I have been wondering in the back of my head what it will turn into. We are both young. I’m 22 and he’s 25 and I met him in the beginning of march. Any advice?

April 20, 2015 at 12:59 am #420131 Reply

Khadija

Sarah,
Don’t wait around for things to change.
You already decided he would not make a good BF. Why would that changed later on?
Life waits for no one.
If, you want a relationship seek it elsewhere.
I’ll also add if you’re hoping for more later you should bench this friendship until those feelings are gone.
When you are friend zoned with a man rarely if ever will that change.

April 20, 2015 at 1:53 am #420141 Reply

redcurleysue

I agree with Khadija….it is a dead end street – find another guy.
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