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Better off single.
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Ann
After a month and a half of not fixing anything my ex ended things last tuesday in a very hateful way. He tried to put me down and last thing he said was “I don’t want to be w you”. I never replied back. On Sunday he texted me “I have some of your stuff I’ll give them to you later”. I thought it was weird bc I know he doesn’t have any of my stuff if anything he has a pair of sunglasses and that’s all. We didn’t even live together and I wouldn’t leave anything at his house. Plus why did he say “later”?.. I did not reply btw. Why would he do that? Do y’all think he will reach out again?
Sophia
He was just trying to get you to respond. Do not reply. If he reaches out again, ignore him again. Remember all of his hateful words. Keep moving forward away from this d!ckwad.
Sophia
Oh, and he said “later” figuring you would at least reply “when?”. Don’t do it. He can choke on the hateful words he spewed at you!
K
Ann… why the hell have you not blocked him yet?? Get off this rollercoaster. You’re a total slave to whatever he does. He’s jerking you all over the place and at this point it’s on you because you keep going anywhere he pushes you. This contact is meaningless, and he’s only checking to see if you’re still on the line so he can jerk you around some more.
Yes, he will try again. This is a game he controls and he enjoys the power and attention he gets from you.
So BLOCK HIM already! You aren’t strong enough to handle him. You still have feelings for him and you’re still hoping he’ll come back or you would have blocked him and you wouldn’t need to post here asking if he’s going to try again. Where is your pride and self respect? This guy has been a total a-hole and treated you like dirt. That’s not going to change.
Ann
I actually did block him. He reached out through WhatsApp which we never talked through there. But yeah I figured he only did it for that reason that’s why I did not reply
K
Good girl. Block him there and any other place he shows up without comment.
He’s going to keep trying to see if you’re weak. Show him you’re strong and you’re not his puppet any more. He might say he wants you back. Don’t fall for it. You’ll be back here in even worse pain than you’ve been in after he treats you like crap messes with your head and dumps you again.
All of this is meaningless. He’s not the guy for you. Work on yourself and you will find you’ll meet someone a lot better when you get emotionally healthier.
Better off single
I agree with everyone here. Good for you for blocking him. No need for time wasters.
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