Dating a Guy who is 12 years older. Thoughts?


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    Kelly

    So I am causally dating a guy who is 36 and I am 24. Just curious what are your thoughts on this? Is that bad or age doesnt matter?

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    Amanda Rocks

    It depends on whether you want the same things out of the relationship. Is he divorced and had his family so doesnt want more kids or is he happily single and a committed bachelor ? Stuff like this can become conflicting going forward so you need to find out if his long term goals are compatible with yours before you get too invested I guess x

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    Amanda

    I really think over 10 years is a no go. Make sure you want the same things in life of course, but with the huge age difference you will be going through different things at different times. If you stay together for life you will likely have 17 years as a widow, since women on average live 5 years longer than men. ON the other hand if you are taking this more casually and are not looking for marriage, that is probably fine.

    How did you meet? Dating website not great bc older guys spend all day trying to see if younger women will say yes. It is a huge ego boost for them.

    #583158 Reply
    Margo

    If this is the same Kelly, idk if you want the advice of someone who is now 51 but here goes: I say it doesn’t matter that he is older. Most women are attracted to guys who are older than we are anyways. Twelve years is not a huge difference. My sister is married to a wonderful man who is 18 years older than she is. He has always treated her like a queen and is the best husband to her. They have been married longer than I have even. If you are attracted to him and he treats you well then I say go for it, but that is from someone who is from the free-love era.

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    Shaggy

    Its okay….. As it is said that cupid love is blind🙄😅 I would say that age doesn’t matter! Actually….. I also liked a guy who was 12 years older than me but it doesn’t matter…. Many of us like someone who’s much older but never mind and live your life as you want.

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    Impeccable

    My boyfriend is 12years older than me, he’s never been married. He has never said “he loves me”. I get really confused because I don’t know what he wants, when I try to talk about us he always reassures me about his feelings. Does he have issues with his emotions?

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    Raven

    Impeccable, what are your ages?

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    Lexie

    Totally depends. I dated a 32 year old when I was 22 and there was a lot of manipulation on his part. I never felt equal. I’m 24 dating a 30 year old now, so there is still an age gap but the difference between the two relationships is night and day.

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