Will he miss me at all?

Well Pippa-either you are an insecure and jealous type-(in which case you need to develop confidence in yourself and stop dating until you do) or he has inappropriate contact and encounters with other women. In case you are the jealous type,do as advised and know that he is not coming back and no contact won’t help. If he is messaging other women etc. then why would you want a guy like that?

We can’t answer that for you. I’m sorry that that’s not the answer you wanna hear but we have no idea. He may be really done he may not. It really doesn’t matter and he is done you a huge favor. Many times break ups don’t have an actual reason but in this case you do. If this has been a pattern where men accuse you of being jealous that means you actually are jealous. I’m having friends is no reason for you to add jealous. I know many other women on this site will not agree with that but my personal opinion is that if you’re afraid of his friends you have a bigger problem on your hand. Anyone can cheat at any time, so thinking that you monitor his friends is going to be helpful doesn’t change anything. Your jealousy is yours to manage, not his. So again if this is a one off thing in terms of your relationships and maybe it was a bad fit in there was more going on, However, if you’ve gotten this feedback before then you have some serious work to do. You really need to be of the mindset that any person who leave you for someone else is the one who’s missing out. Controlling someone is not gonna help you. We all have moments of it so it is not an overall thing but if it is the way that you are in general that’s terrible. My guess is this guy is done done. The reason being is is that he feels like he’s already communicated this to you and you didn’t change.

Also ..I have stopped viewing his social media too

Pippa,are you going to accept his ‘friends’ if he does come back?..I’m asking because it’s obvious that they’re going to be around regardless..