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Maggie
me and my ex have been together for 2.5 years. The first year and a half was really good but last year I became depressed due to work and would cause arguments and wasn’t the best girlfriend. By September 2019 it became really toxic and be arguing atleast 5 times a week. He then became depressed due to the realationship.
January 2020 he had news about his parents going through a divorce and wanted a break to be there for his family and then rang me up saying ‘I can’t be with you anymore, I can’t live like this anymore’. We started arguing and now he’s blocked me, my family and my friends on all social media and changed his number.It’s been two months since I last had contact with him.
P.s I seen he was on tinder and someone in work has told me his following loads of girls and adding girls.
Will he come back? He said the day he finished me he loved me and started crying about letting me go. Confused
Raven
Sounds like he’s done…
Lane
The thing about “love” is its a feeling, and with any feeling it eventually subsides or goes away, especially when it becomes too toxic which is why its best to distance yourself from the toxicity. This is a good time to get your life together and learn how to not take your problems out on others, especially a partner. If you aren’t learning then you aren’t living.
kaye
Wow. For a guy to block not just you but all your friends and family and to change his number really signals he’s done!! You need to work on your depression and get your life in order if you expect to have any healthy relationships in the future. As Lane said, you can’t use your partners as a punching bag for all your problems in life and expect them to stick around!!
Arguing almost every day of the week isn’t any way to live your life! I can see how seeing him parents going through a divorce and realizing when their marriage was done made him have a similar realization about your relationship.
It’s been 2 months and he hasn’t tried to contact you. He’s dating to see what else is out there because he wasn’t happy with you. I don’t think he’s coming back. Would you if he had treated you similarly? Actions can certainly kill feelings, and that’s what happened in my marriage with my ex who was an alcoholic and verbally abusive. You just get to a point where you are done, your feeling for them are gone and you are just numb. Work on moving forward and doing the work you need to have a healthy relationship with someone else in the future.
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