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    Men are more likely than women to be autistic and therefore lack empathy. Perhaps these men are high functioning Aspergers or autistic who are left on the shelf and don’t know how to communicate.

    #758497 Reply


    Maybe because they have difficulty with communication they need to be helped more.

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    That’s the point

    Maybe they realized the situation is not what they want and hope by being too self absorbed you would just move on. Not the brightest crayons in the box are they? They Probably need to get better at thinking things through rather than being impulsive.

    #758586 Reply


    Definitely not the sharpest tools in the shed. And I also agree with your statement above what the point

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    Oh my! I just randomly searched for this topic and feel better already! I’ve been “dating” again on line off and on for about a year and this phenomenon of men having one way conversations is blowing my mind! I would say it happens 8 out 10 times during the “first call”… I’ve tried different tactics on how to change it up but found that the guy I’m attracted to at the onset actually seems a bit interested in at least a few things about me. I just had an hour conversation with a gentleman who only asked ONE question about me – but I could tell you his life story… He was a personable, retired physician but I will not meet him because of the initial phone call – his first chance to impress me – did not!

    Don’t get me wrong- I want to hear all about the boys and their lives and WOULD ask about it (just don’t need to) but it would be nice if they felt the same way

    #760047 Reply


    It is proving that men are also astonishingly mind boggingly boring time and time again also.

    #760048 Reply


    Stephen maybe you are just not meeting women’s whose personalities set you alight. Different personalities do different things to different people.

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    Just met a boy who is sweet as pie and the personalities fit. It can happen you know.

    #760064 Reply


    Stephen has made a very misogynist and narcissistic statement. All women are saying is to find out about he woman a bit more, or, simply go without the sex if that is all that you are looking for.

    #760065 Reply


    As a male I have met many wonderful woman and love my wife, finding she says things I never thought of. Nevertheless I don’t even expect her to work that hard on being interesting, why should we expect one another to work that hard. Maybe if Stephen is so sad he must be dating women who are a reflection of Himself.

    #760076 Reply


    Men and women should spend very little time interacting with each other, yet here you are on a women’s forum ;)

    Interest, just like beauty, is in the eye of the beholder. I feel @Stephen if you came across an interesting woman you would never know it because you’d be too hung up on the fact that she’s female, and would focus on anything that confirms your pre-conceived notions.

    #760090 Reply


    Stephen you have read too much of women are from Venus and men are from mars…. lol

    #760161 Reply

    Wendy Hart

    Where are you finding all these chatty men? The last few dates I’ve been on has been like a silent movie. Unless I ask them something they won’t talk. But to address your concern, one of the main reasons they would dominate the conversation is when they feel they are not getting anything from you. How was your end? Did you at least attempt to talk about yourself? Conversations are a two-way street, even if he didn’t directly ask a question, you should be able to share your insights and connect with your date.

    #760162 Reply


    “I went all out to impress because I really could imagine being in a serious relationship with her! The date was a complete failure. Marcy didn’t want to know anything about me.”

    That sums up the problem best. Why would Marcy want to know anything about Bob when he babbled about it all himself? Where was the conversation? The natural mystery? That was more of an autobiography, or job interview. There are two people on that date. There needs to be a back and forth for interest to develop. Making an impression doesn’t just involve talking/boasting about your own self but exhibiting other impressive personality traits (but please never claim them explicitly like “Well I am very honest and humble” lol) the biggest one being that you actually are capable of showing an interest in yourself -and- someone else.

    I can’t remember the last time, if ever, I liked a girl but didnt want to know anything about her. Unless I was too afraid to go up and talk to her lol. But even then, my mind would learn about her way of dressing, habits etc It’s just so natural when you like someone. Forget girls it’s just being a good human to be interested in other people.

    It’s honestly about a balance, and it’s best when you do things naturally instead of following dating strategies by John McLadies. Unless your natural is ranting about yourself in which case, I can understand following strategies. Idk. I always believe try too hard to impress someone and you’ll come off as desperate, and rarely does anyone see that as attractive.

    #760229 Reply


    The man I would see a future with is someone I can share with become intimate with and have a bond with. It wouldn’t be some man who goes on about himself solidly for 2 hours straight without a thought for his date. It’s called give and take.

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    #760275 Reply


    Was that a confession Ali? 😂

    #760709 Reply


    Thank goodness for the andersons in this world.

    #760744 Reply


    First dates should be easy to bail on and cheap. Coffee date? If the guy annoys (or gal) isn’t your cup of tea, it takes 10 minutes *tops*. For a guy, it keeps costs down. If someone is boring you LEAVE. Politely leave. Go. Exit.

    Generally, men, if a woman is attracted to you, she will sit there and listen attentively and interact. If she looks bored? Pay for the drinks and LEAVE. Women, if a guy is rambling on, and you are bored, pick up your tab and leave.

    I’ve had dates that lasted 3 minutes- why waste someones time?

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