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Sarah-Jane
So I met a guy around 6 weeks back, whilst out. He’s a little way away which is why I resisted for a while, however we’ve kept in contact a lot and decided we’d go out and see where we were at.
We did that a couple of days back, and it was great. He’s continued to contact with no changes, however I noticed I can’t find his Facebook profile anymore (we were friends on there) and my friend checked for me, and she can find it. To me this means I’m blocked?
I’ve asked him and he said no he hasn’t blocked me why would he, and he said he’s looked and noticed some other friends are gone and raised it with Facebook.
I find it too odd for it to happen after we met? But then he’s continuing with the same coms.
What do people think?
Kathy
Was your friend a friend of his on Facebook? Because if she wasn’t, and she can’t find his profile, it means he took his profile down for some reason.
His explanation that some friends are gone is BS.
Friends don’t just disappear on Facebook.Andrea
Since your friend can find his profile but you can’t any longer, it does seem like he blocked you. My guess is that after finally hanging out, he’s decided not to pursue a relationship and only wants something casual. Not having social media connections means an easier break away when he wants to move on.
Colleen
Obviously he doesn’t want his girlfriend to see you liking his posts.
Kathy
Sorry.. Your friend CAN find his profile, so yes, he blocked you. Men give flimsy excuses and think women can’t see through them.
And Andrea and Colleen gave you 2 possible good reasons why.
Sarah-Jane
So ladies I was thinking similar however my friend told me last night that it just might not be he’s blocked. His texting remains the same, and actually stepped up a bit last night whilst he was out with friends. Texting into the night. He continues to not be sexual in his interactions but fun.
My friend said she searched for an old neighbour of hers on fb a while back, who she was friends on fb, to find they were no longer friends. She searched their name up and couldn’t find him, thinking it odd but nothing major. She said she bumped into him around a year on and was catching up, and he asked why HE was blocked. Neither of them showed as blocked on each other’sblocked list- and she says she still can’t find him on there yet they stay in touch.
I just don’t know what to do. He said he’s raised it with fb – do I make it a deal or not? All his posts are public, always have been, so it doesn’t look like he’s hiding anything
Colleen
Raised it with Facebook? What a load of crap . Why not simply send you a friend request?
Newbie
You have been on one date in 6 weeks? Thats the red flag here, not silly fb issues.
Ames
He most likely blocked you and is lying. Hes keeping you as an option and probably texting on his own accord. To make sure you stay interested so he can hook up with you when he wants. Stop wasting your time trying to figure it out and find someone who is willing to put in the effort you deserve:)
K
Why are you FB friending someone you hardly know?
Ianthe
*You have been on one date in 6 weeks? Thats the red flag here, not silly fb issues*
Exactly.
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