I will talk to my partner guy tonight… and be done with it

This is absolute nonsense about Nat, Kathy, and I don’t know who Maria is.

But I am not Nat or Maria. I am a grown woman who has been married twice, once divorced, once widowed.. I have a lot of experience in life. I have a wonderful successful son in my 30’s and I have been successful in life also. Yes, dating can be hard sometimes, but that is no reason to put down other people.

Whether you agree with my advice doesn’t matter. But I am a classy lady and do not put down other people and am not mean. For those of you who are, get a life and take a look at what you are saying to people. I agree Jen, Jay, Raven, SMH and a few others have been horrible to Meemee. If you don’t like what someone is doing when they are clear they are not interested in your negative naysaying, then just get off the frigging thread and go elsewhere! What makes you post such negative things? Take a look at yourselves…

Some of you have been very mean to and should take a hard look in the mirror about how you treat people.

I agree, with some of the vicious women on this site I don’t think I will be posting a question anytime soon. People come here with vulnerability only to be shredded apart sometimes..

What is mean about making observations and declaring them?

When you read the antics of an OP who has poor boundaries and self esteem, of course you correlate that to not being the best role model for children.

If meemee’s son starts dating and asks for advice on how to break up, is she going to tell him to ghost? It teach him how to have integrity and be responsible?

I have a friend who is so preoccupied with match and finding a man. She has two young daughters. Every time she hits a roadblock with a man her mood gets funky. And whether or not she realizes it, her kids can see this. Kids are very in tuned to what’s going on.

Good bye meemee. You haven’t learned anything after a year on here anyway .

And G…. Get lost!

I think there is a big difference in being harsh and not sugar coating things. I think the way memee gets treated here is ridiculous, borderline insane. Its ok not to take advice. Lots of ladies get scary when they feel someone doesnt listen and to project that on her parenting skills is so injust and insulting.
I like memee and aplaud her for her openness and willingness to show her line of thinking. Even if you dont agree, who cares? All that happened is that memee fell in love with a man that doesnt feel the same way. And keeps a door open because she doesnt really know what she wants. Well since almost every woman on the planet has been through such an experience i would ask if that makes them all bad mothers? Get real here. If memee or someone else would say they bring home a new guy every night because they cant be alone and her kids know that. Yeah that might worry me, but not a crush on a guy