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  • #589138 Reply
    Gamer22

    and are you a guy, I might be able to give some advice about a girl??

    #591157 Reply
    Gmaer22

    okay so another problem I messaged him and said exactly this (from what I can remember)

    “hey heard you weren’t feeling well, hope ya get better”.

    he didn’t look at the message .. that’s not like him? what could be the problem? is it that he cant see the message ? cause he needs an app to see them, but he did before, so is he ignoring me? I didn’t do anything ? Please Help ?

    #591206 Reply
    Raven

    Honey, I think it’s time to let this one go…

    #591208 Reply
    Gamer22

    no this is the first time, and he was super nice to me, always trying to make me laugh, and he is really nice, but he hasn’t been feeling well also, also he is in my youth group, and I don’t think he is going to change ? I haven’t been around him yet to see if he acts differently , I don’t think he will. he’s not that kind of person.

    #591215 Reply
    kaye

    If a guy is interested in you then you will know. He won’t be ignoring your messages and he’ll be sending you messages and initiating conversations. Plus he’ll be wanting to be around you and ask you to hang out or go on a date. This guy is doing none of that. I’m with Raven..it’s time for you to let this one go. There’s probably another girl he’s talking to.

    #591231 Reply
    Stacy

    I agree with the above.

    The guy is seeing someone else and doesn’t care about you. You are wasting all your energy on a guy that is not giving you what you want.
    Drop him, move on, there are thousands of suitable men out there for you.

    #591232 Reply
    gamer22

    ya. he did message me though, he said he was bored, and he sent some stickers, and he made a joke about this, and he said I guess, and he said I guess were saying I guess, He was really nice (does this count?)also he was nice to me before ?

    #591236 Reply
    gamer22

    wait what are you guys seeming so confused. he only didn’t answer me this once, and there could be other reasons why, like he was sick, maybe it didn’t send, maybe he doesn’t have the app to view it, but besides this how does he sound ?

    #591238 Reply
    gamer22

    and you said you should know if he likes you , and I feel like he does.. hes the one that started the thing between us..

    #591248 Reply
    Stacy

    You have to look at the big picture dear – is he just playing around with you and not serious or considering you to be his GF?

    Just because a guy is “nice” doesn’t mean anything. Players can be nice to get what they want.

    My take is that if he keeps being inconsistent and you are always questioning his motives or what his emails say, the guy is not for you. I wasted 2 years of my life on a flake like this and found out he was seeing other women but kept saying I Love You all the time.

    Beware of players!!!

    #591250 Reply
    gamer22

    he is not a player, he is in my youth group? and he isn’t inconsistent. I know he likes me I feel, and im kinda getting irritated, but not to be mean, but why do you guys think he is a player, and all this ? ive never seriously questioned it. I feel like he really does like me. and he is a trouble maker, I cant go into detail, but he has trouble behaving quote quote. trust me this guy is not a player..

    ive had a friend , and he dated my friend in front of me, plus 2 other girls, and he tried to ask my sister out, now that’s a player, but if we could please just focus on the stuff above this paragraph

    #591253 Reply
    Stacy

    I am sorry dear but if he is causing you to question everything and you are a nervous wreck, he is not worth it.

    Sometimes people don’t answer a text because they are busy, just didn’t feel like it, didn’t know how to answer or are otherwise occupied.

    Best not to sit around in a state of anxiety trying to figure him out. If he is causing you so much uncertainty, I would keep my options open with other guys.

    #591256 Reply
    gamer22

    oh he doesn’t go to the same school. we don’t even contact each other that much..

    #591257 Reply
    gamer22

    and im not a nervous wreck lol

    #591261 Reply
    gamer22

    he could also not be a texter. sometimes I don’t like texting, or feel like it..

    #591265 Reply
    Phillygirl

    You are obviously very young and don’t have much experience with guys.

    This guy is not interested in you, beyond reaching out when he is bored and has nothing else going on.

    A guy who is interested will find any excuse to talk to you and be around you. He isn’t doing anything.

    You can disregard what everyone is telling you, and continue pursuing this, but I seriously doubt it’s going anywhere.

    He is barely acknowledging you. A boy that’s into a girl wants to talk to her, get to know everything about her and spend time with her one on one. If you contintue chasing him, and that is exactly what it looks like, you will get your feelings hurt and likely be uncomfortable at youth group.

    Back up and stop reaching out. See if he does any initiating. Social media “likes” and some texts mean zero. You are ascribing mean to behavior that means absolutely nothing.

    He knows you like him, I’m fairly sure you’ve made it obvious, yet he isn’t stepping up in any way. That’s how we know he’s not into it.

    #591266 Reply
    Phillygirl

    *ascribing “meaning”

    #591383 Reply
    Gamer22

    he talked to me once , and some guys don’t like texting. sometimes I don’t like texting. he does reach out, and I don’t make it to obvious. he was the one that started the whole thing, and I left him alone, cause I though he was like the others, but so far he is good.

    #591385 Reply
    Gamer22

    he talked to me once over texts sent me a friend request and likes a lot of my stuff, like spam likes.., and some guys don’t like texting. sometimes I don’t like texting. he does reach out, and I don’t make it to obvious. he was the one that started the whole thing, and I left him alone, cause I though he was like the others, but so far he is good. appreciate the feed back.. and im not looking for a relationship, and yes im obvious about it, but I don’t reach out, I mean I join in playing volleyball and he is really nice.

    #591387 Reply
    Phillygirl

    He talked to you once. He isn’t making any real effort to get to know you, and he isn’t asking you out or trying to date you.

    He likes you as a friend or enough to distract himself with when nothing else is going on, but this isn’t the behavior of a guy that wants more.

    You will need to learn this the hard way. Good luck

    #591392 Reply
    Gamer22

    Um yeah.. good point this brings up…….. we cant date……

    #591393 Reply
    L

    Did someone add a topic for kindergarten topics, and I missed it?

    #591397 Reply
    Phillygirl

    I have to admit, this is ridiculous

    #591398 Reply
    Gamer22

    sorry for the confusion. I just realized why you guys were so confused..

    #591400 Reply
    Gamer22

    no, he isnt the same age and we cant date , but I at least want to be his friend and when a friend does this it hurts, im worried, he might be trying to turn away, that’s what im worried about, but I said I cant see it, and I doubt it…. and not really ridiculous, we come here to talk about problems.. I think it might just be like friends for now…. but we don’t want anything serious..

    does this change anything

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