Help on a conversation with my boyfriend


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    Ashley

    Hello, I need some advice on how to approach this conversation. I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 6 months and everything has been going great. As we are getting to know each other more, I’ve seen things that aren’t deal breakers or anything but maybe things that bother you or the other person. One of these things I’ve noticed is that he has a lot of good friends who go to him for advice and I love that about him because he gives great advice. But after he talks to them and often it’s about relationship problems, he will bring me into it and ask me if this is true about our relationship or will form opinions about things because of something someone else told him. I feel like it’s not fair to bring other people’s problems or concerns into our relationship. I know I’m being broad, but I’ve seen this happen a few times with different topics he’s discussed with his friends.

    How do you recommend I bring this up to him in a kind way? What should I say?

    Thank you for the help!

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    Rose

    You’re definitely not wrong here to question. I would caution you however to not stir trouble when there’s none. He simply seeing he’s friends experience and wonders if he may also be the one in that situation with you one day and honestly he’s just touching base making sure and checking what your opinion on it are to see if your values align. I would say it feels like he might be a little insecure too but hey it’s all part of getting to know you. Be happy he’s comfortable sharing these things with you though. Some guys dont.

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