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March 13, 2018 at 7:01 am #692791
Why would guys do that?
He used to always watch my insta story when we were seeing each other. He ended it, said he wanted space so we can both get over it.
No contact. But I noticed he stopped watching my story the very next day and hasn’t opened anything ever since.
Simply so suddenly totally not interested anymore about my life?
To send me a message? – “I don’t care!”
Or to help himself move on?March 13, 2018 at 7:08 am #692793
P.S. I don’t think he was he was overly invested in our relationship but I know he cared about me till the end. Even if just as a friend. No dramas when we ended it eitherMarch 13, 2018 at 11:13 am #692809
He’s likely just trying to distance himself and give himself the space he said he would. Honestly, I wouldn’t give this a second’s thought.March 13, 2018 at 12:00 pm #692813
Well he told you he wanted space and he’s taken it.March 13, 2018 at 1:12 pm #692821
Oh Honey, let it go… This is but a minor blip.March 13, 2018 at 1:47 pm #692823
Why do people not seem to understand that no contact also means not stalking each other on social media also!?!? He ended it, he wants space, no contact. So of course he stopped watching your story.March 13, 2018 at 2:08 pm #692830
Exactly, Kaye, no contact means no speaking to, hearing of, watching on sm. This seems so logic to me and yet…?July 23, 2018 at 6:19 pm #714325
He might be secretly watching your stories. Or he wants you to miss him by totally ignoring you. and you didnt really specify what happened.. I really think this is his way of saying ” You hurt me”July 23, 2018 at 7:42 pm #714327
He’s not interested in you…why is this surprising?
I’m sorry, hope you find a decent man who appreciates you.:)July 23, 2018 at 9:22 pm #714333
No contact means NO CONTACT. If you had broken up with him, we’d be advising you to cut him completely off for at least 30 days to give you space to get over it. That includes no social media, et al. This is a normal part of a break up.August 20, 2020 at 10:12 am #803580
hey i know this probably isn’t a relevant post anymore, but ive been going through something similar, im the guy and i stopped watching her Instagram stories, despite wanting nothing more than to connect with her, i know that i need to move on because the relationship is now in the past, this doesn’t necessarily mean that we cant try again in the future but it wont be the same relationship that we previously had, it’ll be something different. this is how i feel personally, but it could also mean that he feels indifferent about you and therefor doesn’t feel the need to watch although if he felt indifferent he would probably be watching all of your stories because he doesn’t care what you think of it. it could also be him trying to show you in his own way that hes hurting and wants you to notice him. maybe hes just been on a social media detox. it could mean anything. id take him not watching as a sight that he still cares but knows that he needs to move forward in his life and his emotions for his own sake. but if you really want to know, just message him. see if you’re here its obvious that you still care about him to some degree so just take 1 last risk, especially if you were the one who broke up with him or if you wanted the breakup more than him.February 12, 2021 at 1:19 pm #842677
Me and my ex broke up some weeks ago He ended it but in the text he said we should go on a break and be friends for now.I then reacted by calling him we spoke things through said a couple of things I shouldn’t (not extreme tho)but later we resolved the issue and we became cool.Mind you we had been talking for three months then started dating for a month.The reason he ended it was because he hardly saw each other because of my protective parents,and also because he felt I said alot of things I didn’t end up doing, and felt I was was just saying those things to keep him excited.We The day after we broke up I reached out to him we spoke for a bit I started no contact for 3days,but had to break it to tell him happy birthday I told him I missed him and he said he missed me too.Its been 7days of no contact he hasn’t watched my story but my question is that is there a chance of us getting back together and does he still care about meFebruary 12, 2021 at 1:38 pm #842682
This is an old thread. You’ll get more responses if you post your own, new question.
It doesn’t seem like he wants to get back together. It seems like a very new relationship/dating that just didn’t pan out. I would advise you to move on. All the bestJune 14, 2021 at 8:10 am #882813
I am now in a similar situation as well, and reading your reply has brought me some hope. My ex broke up with me a few months ago, and recently, I’ve noticed that in the event that I upload multiple IG stories, he would only watch the first one, and not the rest. I know I shouldn’t care, but it does hurt that he doesn’t seem to care. How can a guy just all of a sudden stop caring? Would greatly appreciate it if you could share your insights on this. Thanks!June 14, 2021 at 11:58 am #882891
i think this means that you should unfollow him and if hes following you, remove him from followers list. you guys have broken up. the end. move on.June 14, 2021 at 5:48 pm #883032
Sorry that this happened! This has happened to me too. Sounds like he doesn’t even want a friendship. He might come back and start watching it at some point but you deserve someone better who will be interested in your life!