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LL87.
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You met him online I will guess. If so, he has a million other options, he kept you on hold with no firm plans to use you as a back up. You aren’t his first choice, let it go. You never ev n met the guy, if you want to be angry and text him go for it, but it just is a confirmation for him that he picked the right woman and that’s not you. Have respect and move on.
LL87
I have a lot of respect thanks. Not going to text him his number is already deleted.
peggy
This happened to me,a guy I had been talking with on an internet dating site asked me out for Friday. I said sure,sounds good,what’s the plan etc. and then heard nothing about a time or place. Friday came and went with nothing. No message at all.
Then Monday,he messaged and said “Oh sorry about Friday “( offered no explanation,etc.) and asked if I wanted to go that evening. I never replied. I am certain he “got a better offer” and kept me “on hold in case”. Thanks but no thanks to that! You did not miss a thing!
LL87
So just so to update you ladies because I follow this for forum and sometimes I like to know what the outcome of situations are.
He text me today saying ‘So sorry about last night, I lost my phone on Wednesday and had a nightmare few days. I hope I didnt ruin your night.’
I know he didn’t loose his phone because he was online.
I replied ‘Don’t worry, nobody could ever ruin my night’
Bedazzle
Great response!
LL87
Glad you approve Bedazzle lol and I hope you don’t think I was arguing with you or something before as I said I appreciate your input I just know inside that he didn’t misunderstand what I said and I guess his message today confirms that. Much love :)
Bedazzle
I am glad you did what is right for you!!
No I didn’t think you were arguing. I thought we were having a discussion. I think seeing different perspectives is the best way for as broad of an understanding as possible.
I am sure next time a guy asks you out on a date, you’ll hear me in your head to nail it down. :-)
xo
peggy
Hi-am sure the guy was “full of it”-however,it is possible to be on-line on the computer. I have an old flip phone with no internet on it and I use the computer for internet.
Jessica
@peggy well he should’ve contacted her online then. She saw he was online which means they’re connected and he could’ve sent her a message. He’s a grown man
LL87
It was WhatsApp that he was online. Yes I checked, if that makes me a stalker I am comfortable with being so because if nothing else it ruled out possibilities that he was dead, lost his phone (as he said!), or some other serious equation. And well in the end he helped me know he’s a liar. Who wants to date a liar? Not me thanks.
peggy
Jessica-“he is a grown man”. Apparently not lol!
Raven
You all are so much more classy than me…
I would have told him that he had a lot of nerve & to funk off & after I hit send, I’da blocked!
Maggie
Why women feel compelled to check every form of social media to find out if a man is lying to them or not…
Just be done with him if you can’t trust these men.
LL87
Sign of the times Maggie
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