He came back but he rejected me again. What should I do?


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    Xi

    Hello,
    I met him from a dating site and we started texting and hitting on each other everyday since Aug 19 but we have never met. We liked each other and he even said that he did not see anyone else because I was enough and he enjoyed me. Then, he got a personal issue that he was stressed out. He rejected me by saying that we are incompatible but all his explanation was all wrong about me. So, I asked him that I wanted to explain but we ended up without conversations. He had ghosted me for 2 months and he just came back in Jan.

    The first week, we were texting as usual like hitting on each other. The reason he told me is that he freaked out about something and he will visit me to talk about it in a person in the early of Feb. He texted me that he wants me to believe that he really likes me and he found that I am highly interesting for him and he wants us to be the same. The last 2 weeks, he texted me really less so I asked him directly that what is in his mind.

    He said that he is lost and fears that I am heading towards to relationship but he is not and he convinced that he does not see our future as a couple because we are very different and our lifestyles are too. Now, I asked him when he will come to visit me and talk about everything. He has not replied me for 2 days.

    I am so depressed now because half of me is telling me to leave but another half is telling me to explain him about what he got me wrong because I really like him.

    #784837 Reply
    Khadija

    I met him from a dating site and we started texting and hitting on each other everyday since Aug 19 but we have never met.

    I stopped reading there.

    Stop engaging with someone you have never met. He’s probably married or who knows what else.

    #784839 Reply
    LJ

    This doesn’t sound like the beginning of a successful relationship.

    His actions are telling you he isn’t invested in having a relationship with you. Also, you can’t make a guy like you if he isn’t into you.

    Sorry. Let him go.

    #784840 Reply
    Peggy

    Hi-Yeah this is a lost cause. He either is stringing you along “in case” or he is not really available. Never engage with anyone by text or message/phone etc. for more than a week without a firm plan to meet up right after that. If a person lives quite a distamnce away,maybe a month at the most. But in general,try to connect with guys who live near you.
    Just cut this guy loose and do not ever again get “invested ” in someone who you have never met.

    #784843 Reply
    Raven

    You’ve never met?!

    #784845 Reply
    Tallspicy

    Oh my lord! Please please please go to a therapist. You never met, and you are talking like you are heartbroken. In fact, you are heartbroken – OVER SOMEONE YOU NEVER MET. Please for the love of god learn why you are so anxious attachment that you got embroiled in this. That is a better use of your time. That is harsh, I know, but it is to wake you up to this whole story you have created. This is a story.

    Until someone is your actual boyfriend, you do not over invest, you let him do the work.

    There is an over 50% chance that you never met because he was catfishing you.

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