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Rox
I’ve been seeing this guy for a month now and the getting to know each other has been a lot of fun. Two nights ago, after our date, things got very hot and heavy for us. We were close to having sex, but i told him not yet and he respected that and reassured me he can wait until i’m ready. The next day, he was at his friend’s party and he was texting me all night of pictures and videos of the party.
I knew he was at a party, but i felt daring enough to send him a very sexy text (no nude pics) about the night before, but he never responded. The texting stop. It’s morning now and still no response.
I feel embarrased. Should i text him asking if he received my text or should i be like, “text? What text?”Rox
I also hope this doesn’t mean he’s losing interest.
Lyn
He was at a party. Maybe he got busy and then went home to bed.
Forget it. And don’t send sexy pics to a man you barely know a month. Let him pursue you. You should not be pursued no him, which is what you are doing.
And I can tell by what you write that this is leading to sex very shortly. Not a problem, but are you prepared if he isn’t wanting a relationship with you?
Just asking because it seems there is a rash of posts on here about women who get hurt by having sex too soon.. before the man’s real intentions are known.
Rox
Sending him a super flirty text is pursuing him? I don’t want to do that because i got burned in the past because of it.
I rather get to know him better before sleeping with him. How do i convey this to him? I feel like i’d be sending mixed messages considering how our date ended the other night and my text from last night?Lane
Stop trying to sex men.
Men don’t bond through sex, they bond by creating positive memories with a lady while doing things together. Your a tease. You tell him your not ready for sex then send a sexy test?!? He’s probably thinking this girl is all over the place, saying one thing but doing another.
Why can’t you just enjoy getting to know a man without making it about sex?
Ollie
Please, never send an overtly sexual text (sexting or photo) to a man with whom you are not in a deeply committed relationship.
Even if you are only looking for a hookup, just don’t put that kind of stuff out there because you never know where it will end up. Hookups can happen easily without putting deeply personal and sexual content in cyberspace.
If you are a relationship minded girl, you will never regret turning down man’s solicitation for sexy pics. Let him show you he is worthy of getting that side of you in person.
As for this guy, let it go and don’t contact him. If the subject comes up just say “yeah, sorry about that, I got a little carried away and now feel bad about it.” Then move on to another topic.
Rox
It didn’t become about sex until the other night.
Again, i didn’t think my text would be considered pursing or teasing.Rox
Ok, thanks ollie. Yeah, i am feeling embarassed right now and would just like to move on from it and carry along the way we were before.
I won’t bring it up. We have a date on thursday and i’ll just act as of nothing happened.Aimee
Go to the same college. Been talking for a month through snap and in person about everything. We are currently home for thanksgiving break. This morning he snapped me pictures of him in the shower… just a shirtless pic. I replied with a semi sexy pic showing cleaver sent me another picture from inside the shower. I sent him a nude. Now he didn’t reply? Was I in the wrong?
Really
You really want him sharing that pic with all his friends? Because that is what will happen. Do you want a boyfriend or just a sex buddy, because sending pics like that doesn’t send the message that you want a boyfriend.
Better off single
Just be careful whoever you send those kinds of pictures to. You never know who can get a hold of them. That was a hard lesson I had to learn. I don’t care to send sexts or nudes anymore. Kind of scarred me for life.
Your guy probably not interested. Hopefully he isn’t sharing them with his friends and laughing about it.
Emma
What was your “super sexy” text? can you quote yourself please.
Maybe it was so corny he needs time to recover LOL
Anne ohio
You kids and your toys, I mean phones. You whole world revolves around your phones.
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