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    Jess A

    Sorry to hear this! But he seems flakey. I think you should talk to him about where you stand and then if you don’t agree or aren’t on the same page, it’s best to pull the plug.

    Good luck!

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    Kathy

    This is a 2 year old post. I wish people would quit digging up old posts. I don’t know how they do it, but the person they are writing to is never going to see it, because they are long gone!

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    Jo

    Admin-is it not possible to get posts to automatically close for replies a specified length of time after the last update. I’m sure I’ve seen other sites do that.

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    ANM Staff
    Keymaster

    Mod update: Indeed, this is a pretty old post! If you’d like to post more about this topic, you’re welcome to do so in a fresh new thread!

    Since it was brought up, I’ll say a little more on the topic of “old threads”…

    You bring up a good point, Jo. It is indeed possible to auto-lock old threads, but that part isn’t really the blocking issue with that. What I’ve been mulling-over is the need to solve is the “human factors” aspect of the issue. If someone reads an old thread and feels compelled to talk about the subject – especially if their topic is “hey, this happened to me too!” – then I want to be able to (gently) direct our participants to open up a new thread from the same form. That gets more tricky. Handling that “the right way” is really important to me because I don’t want to put up perceived barriers in the way of posting.

    Well that, and finding time to spend on it! :)

    But having said that… it definitely seems like a lot of old threads are getting resurrected lately. (As annoying as it is to the community, it’s a “good thing” for the site itself. More and more people are finding threads that they think are applicable to them, and that’s nice.) I’m going to see if I can find time for a stopgap solution to help improve this, hopefully it’s something I can do this month.

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