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    BarbraMoonCabbage

    So I like a guy, who barely notices me, I’m like the human version of Casper. He knows I am interested, but he’s so unphased and I gather, not that interested. I text him back soon as he replies, and I wait hours sometimes days before he responds.

    Then I have another guy who smashes up my inbox, weekly, since 2006. Given that I’ve shown ZERO interest.

    Why can’t I get a guy who likes me.

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    Ewa

    you can get a guy who likes you, but you are not interested in that guy! you want someone you can’t have, don’t we all lol

    the best advice here is to start paying more attention to people that are interested in you and forget about those who don’t. nothing good came out of chasing a guy so stop it. the guy you are texting is clearly not interested you, so stop responding when he texts. He knows he could have you straight away so make yourself less available. if he takes days to respond you do the same. But honestly it is a waste of time.

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    Lane

    A man who isn’t interested in is you is for same reason’s you aren’t interested in a guy.

    Its based on the ‘IT factor’, you either have *it* or you don’t, and if you don’t the guy isn’t going to show any interest. You don’t know what the *it* factor is, as it can be physical (a must for men); or intangible (the way she smiles, speaks), or a combination of both, as attraction is person-to-person. He could be drawn to spunky red heads, and if you’re a shy blonde he’s not going to show any interest as you don’t possess the attributes (it factor) that naturally attracts him to a certain woman.

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    Anderson

    I’ve always said that clingy and aloof people don’t truly exist. These are just labels used when you aren’t on the same page as the other person. And when you are, it cancels out.

    Some people truly chase the aloof types. Other times, someone doesn’t like you to begin with, and the more attention you give them the more they back off because they wanted to keep you at an arm’s length to begin with.

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    ojonemile

    I better give in to the one that is in interested in me than waiting endless for the one that don’t have my time. when someone love you he will do everything to me you happy but the one you claim you love will be playing with your emotions.

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