What is considered "normal" timeframe for not hearing from your boyfriend


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    Maggie

    Totally agree with you :)

    #428263 Reply
    good dancer

    i have been researching Narcissism and men , he sounds like a narc.

    Disappearing

    having everything on his terms

    not responding yet being ANGRY when you dont respond instantly

    being punished (ie disappearing) when you voice concerns

    and i havent even read this whole thread

    #428273 Reply
    Greenie

    I agree with good dancer that this guy sounds like a narcissist. The disappearing act (which happens regularly) is not a good sign, he probably has someone else that he’s seeing when he’s not with you. (Or perhaps more than one woman.)

    There is no “normal” amount of communication, but most couples communication at least one or more times daily unless they are fighting. The question is: what do YOU want? It makes no difference what’s normal for someone else or what they want, this is YOUR relationship and YOUR life. You need to speak up for your own needs and not just accept crumbs. If he is not capable of meeting your needs and desires then why be with him at all? Find someone who fits the bill, this guy is NOT going to change!

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    Greenie

    *most couples communicate

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    redcurleysue

    People are who they are…when they tell you or show you believe them.

    We cannot and should not change anyone else…that is free will.

    Either you can love him just the way things are right this minute or you need to walk. You should not get a Collie and wish they were a Panther.

    #428296 Reply
    Zee

    Wow. Definitely, definitely, definitely. It’s going to take time to get used to getting back to your positive and natural energy again, but it’s worth the walk away now. Take this as a big note and forget thanking the people commenting here for you but you will definitely thank yourself later and –

    THAT’S THE BEST FEELING AF. :D imagine feeling light and feminine again! And start right now. Connect yourself to all that’s worthy of your presence and your time.

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    Annie

    I agree with boog. Especially the use of the term “trained”. He has trained you.

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    Kjay

    If and when he calls back I would tell him it’s over , it’s even worse with long distance relationship , u can’t see him, you don’t know if he is hospitalise or dead it’s crazy

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    Jen

    K jay
    These threads you respond to are over a year old!

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