Urgent help.


Home Forums Dating and Sex Advice Urgent help.

This topic contains 3 replies, has 1 voice, and was last updated by  Maddie 1 week, 3 days ago.

Viewing 4 posts - 1 through 4 (of 4 total)
  • Author
    Posts
  • #844807 Reply

    Emma

    Need urgent advice. I’ve been texting with a coworker. We’re both single. After 3 days of amazing conversations which were getting more and more engaging, long and personal, he said that he enjoys texting with me, but that he wants to make sure I’m okay with getting to know each other and that he is worried about crossing the line. Not sure what to make of it. Seriously. If I weren’t okay with it, I wouldn’t have texted back and forth so much. Is he backing off? Or trying to tell me that maybe I crossed the line. Help?

    #844837 Reply

    Raven

    It is not a good idea to date a co-worker…

    #844909 Reply

    Maddie

    I wouldn’t recommend dating a coworker, but if you want to try, you need to be very direct and clear in communication or it’ll be a total disaster. That does include talking about how you both feel about dating coworkers and what that looks like to both of you before you get involved.

    I did it once. Emotionally it was a disaster, but professionally no one knew and it didn’t disrupt anything at work because we’d agreed on how we wanted to handle it beforehand and stuck to that.

    #844911 Reply

    Maddie

    He’s also checking for consent because men do worry about potentially being accused of sexual harassment, that’s one of the reasons you have to communicate well and be straightforward and mature with no games in coworker dating situations.

Viewing 4 posts - 1 through 4 (of 4 total)
Reply To: Urgent help.
Your information:





<blockquote> <code> <pre> <em> <strong> <ul> <ol start=""> <li>

recent topics