Home › Forums › The Community Lounge › The book review…He’s Not that Complicated
- This topic has 13 replies and was last updated 9 years, 3 months ago by
Sasha.
-
AuthorPosts
-
Dusti
I am wondering if anyone has bought the book, read it and had success with it. I am in a situation where I have been the needy clingy person with a guy recently and he has since told me he doesn’t want a relationship but would like to remain friends. Wondering if this book will help me and if it really works
Sasha
Best book I’ve ever read! I’ve learned more from that book in one single read, than I’ve learned in my entire dating/love life. It also helps me become a better version of me for all areas of my life. :)
So yes, It will help you, BUT! You have to be ready and willing to acknowledge your actions.
Sorcha
Hi Dusti,
I have read the book and it mirrors a lot of the good advise given by the posters on this site. Namely, if a guy says he is not looking for a relationship, believe him! No matter the excuses of I’ve been hurt etc. Everyone has been hurt at one stage or another. Another key thing is actions and words, words can come very easily to some people who can not or do not want to match them. Words are cheap without the backup of actions. I’ve heard so many poor excuses in my time! Lastly I think the both line is you can not control the actions of others, only your own. If something does not feel right or not matching up, remember the advise given on flights, put your own mask on before you can help others. You really need to think of your own needs, not for forsake them for others.
Dusti
Thank you! I plan on buying it…just wanted to know if it was worth the money. Can you download it on multiple computers?
Sasha
Dusti – I downloaded it onto my phone. I think as long as you have Adobie Reader, you should be good to go.
Ivy
I didn’t read the book yet but I truly believe that when a guy says he doesn’t want a relationship then no book can change the guy’s mind.
Sasha
opps, think I read your question wrong. Yes you can open it on multiple computers because you log into the site where the book is. They’ll send you a link to your email. Therefore you can access it on anything.
Sasha
Ivy, the book doesn’t teach you how to change a guys mind or anything of that sort. It teaches you to understand what men do, what they are saying, why they do what they do and what you can do to protect yourself from possibly falling into the traps that a lot of us women do. It teaches you that you CAN’T change a guys mind, however you CAN become more desirable, be it with that man in particular OR other men. It also teaches you how to value yourself as a woman and how to find the confidence within you.
I found it to be a great self help book for not just my love life, but for my personal and professional life too!
d
Is that book on Amazon?? anyone have the author.
Sasha
d – Eric and Sabrina are the authors of “He’s not that complicated” and it’s not on Amazaon, it’s an ebook right now. At least I’ve never seen an actual hard copy?
Tasha
Best eBook ever,worth the $
Ivy
I am sure it is a great book and I am going to read. However, nobody needs a book to know that when a man says he doesn’t want a relationship it’s best to walk away, that was my only point.
Eric CharlesKeymasterHey there —
I saw this topic and was delighted to see so many heartfelt, positive reviews of the book. In fact, I was kind of reluctant to post because I didn’t want to skew or bias the conversation (being that I’m one of the authors of it).
You can get the book at http://www.hesnotthatcomplicated.com/
And yes, you can open the book on multiple devices.
Sasha
:) Eric, all I have to say is, THANK YOU! That book has seriously saved me from SO many unpleasant possibilities that I could have easily fallen into, like I had in the past. Thanks to everything I’ve learned from the book, the articles and your emails, I’ve changed my incredibly unhealthy past patterns!
-
AuthorPosts
