Responding to a Booty Call


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    Cat

    I’ve casually hung out with a guy sporadically over the last year. He’s recently re-emerged and we were intimate several weeks ago. Since then he has booty-called me nearly every weekend, but it’s always between 12-2AM. I simply don’t stay up that late most nights. My phone is on do not disturb so I do not get the messages until I wake up the next morning. It’s always the same ‘WYD?’ , and I typically respond with ‘At the time I was sleeping’, then some other minor BS.

    My question is – how do I respond, or should I even respond? It’s kind of a moot-point if I missed the booty call right?

    Thing is, I’m down for the booty call with him, but not at 2AM! More like 9PM – lol!

    I don’t want to blow him off by not responding, and give him the impression that I’m not interested, but at the same time I’m trying really hard to not chase guys – so I don’t really know what to say.

    #928929 Reply

    Raven

    Arranging Booty Calls doesn’t fall into ‘chasing’ territory.

    Ask him to call you earlier.

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    Lane

    I’m confused about your actual motive here? You appear to be up for a booty call but also appear to want something more from him too based on your last statement in regard to chasing men.

    If its purely for sex then dating rules don’t apply, just a simple “I’m up for some fun but it needs to be earlier, such as 9pm, as I need my beauty sleep :o)” Short, direct and too the point. If he keeps doing the 2am calls, then don’t respond once you’ve put him on notice. Only respond when he contacts you at a reasonable time. Easy peasy.

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