He left me for his ex…I need advice


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    Shauna Schultz

    Also told me “I will never truly know what I want right now”
    So why go back to his ex then?

    #753937 Reply
    kaye

    Shauna Schultz-You saw a guy for 2 months while he had a LIVE IN girlfriend! Sorry but no good could have come from this situation. You were a nice distraction for awhile but that’s about it. You can’t build a relationship with someone when they are still emotionally connected to someone else!!

    #753941 Reply
    Shauna Schultz

    Kaye ,
    His bestfriend even told me he was planning on leaving her for a while , he just needed the income until he can figure out money. And when he did.. he kicked her out. He even bought me a $300 arianna grande ticket for November .. literally talked to my sister about it and kept it a secret for the longest time. He gave my sister the money and my whole family knew that he was buying it and to not tell me. He told me that if I would have waited a little longer for him to make a decision and not be forced to .. he wouldn’t have chosen her. He said he feels like I forced him to chose her by texting his ex asking “what’s going on between them two” he told me once he broke up with her… he wanted me to be there for him throughout the breakup because that’s 5 years of his adult life. He told me he was scared to start something new with me but told me that the connection him and I had at the beginning was stronger than their connection was at the beginning. And what if they continue to fight for 3 months and be good for a week and he breaks up with her again Bc of the arguing and the bitching from her. And he comes to me?

    #753948 Reply
    Shauna Schultz

    Kaye,
    He even slept on the couch every night after he broke up with her. He wouldn’t even kiss her for the past 6 months. He told me he knows that the relationship between them two is dead in the water (even after he said he missed her) but he claims that he doesn’t give up ever on someone especially with so much history. He said that their are more bad memories than good

    #753949 Reply
    Louise

    Shauna,

    He’s confused. You were the side piece, and that would definitely be a catalyst for ending it with her; and then you need time for the dust to settle and he didn’t and couldn’t miraculously forget 5 years with her and fall in love with you in just a few weeks. 2 months is no time together.

    If he comes back around you say NOPE until he’s been single a while and dealt with his baggage.

    #753950 Reply
    Raven

    He says one thing & does another. What a catch…

    #753953 Reply
    Shauna Schultz

    Raven,
    The problem is .. is that his actions met up with his words. His actions came into play before his words did. He did everything to match his words.

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