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Anna
Hi everyone…I am quite stressed lately when my 2 yr ldr bf told me that the girl he once to be friend online n also the reason why we had some misunderstanding ages ago reach him out again asking how he is doing and that she regrets what she have done coz we talk of that certain girl before. And she likes sending photos and videos of her to my bf..I told my bf that I don’t like this girl and I don’t want to talk to her again but he insist that it’s okay and don’t worry coz he will just reply to her msg sometimes and ifever she causes drama again n become emotional he will not reply …I don’t want my bf to see me as a controlling gf so I leave it up to him.i need advise this is upsetting me…he still wants to be his friend and we knows that she likes my bf😕
Zoe
Find a man on the side of your own, tell him that you only be with him once in a while and see how he reacts
mama
Zoe’s advice is horrible but I think Zoe’s trying to make a very good point! How would your partner like it if you treated the relationship so cavalier? It makes me wonder if you’re more invested than he is?
You don’t really give us specifics on how your LDR relationship has been going these past 2 years (background info helps give you better advice). How often do you see him? How old are you guys? Have you actually met in person?
Bottom line is this for anyone in this situation: You are NOT being controlling when you set standards and boundaries for what makes you feel secure and safe in a relationship. What you have to do is be clear about what sort of behavior from your partner makes you feel safe and secure (for example, not communicating with women who don’t respect your relationship), let THEM decide for themselves if it’s worth doing, then BE WILLING TO WALK AWAY if your partner doesn’t follow through with what makes you feel secure and safe.
Their actions speak volumes. So do YOURS. ;)
Raven
Why are you long distance?
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