Can i ask out again? When and how?

Why you chasing a girl who is clearly not interested …?

Ask her out again. Go for a Friday night.

Don’t worry about rejection in the dating game guys get rejected all the time you just have to develop a thick skin. She didn’t out right reject you and hasn’t ghosted so you’re still in the game.

Also don’t put all your eggs in this basket. Hit up other women.

I think maybe this shows a difference between men and women, because the only person who doesn’t advise to give up (and the only one that Eric doesn’t chose to ignore) is Warasen’s. Quite often I shake my head on how stubborn men are in not taking hints… Even at the moment I have some male friends who don’t get that me not replying for days and being busing “busy” all the time is me not being interested (when we have mutual friends or work together I try not to ignore them completely). I finally decided to upload a public picture with my man on fb so that they see that I am in a serious relationship, hopefully that’ll help (although I know from experience that a serious relationship won’t stop some men either… sigh).

Eric no, she’s not interested. And you’re not in a game, sorry, pursuing this further will give you an illusion of a game at most, a false hope.

Media has taught us men that women like to be pursued. The attention will eventually win her over.

True or not the math tells me it doesn’t hurt Eric to ask her out again. In this day and age most people (for what I have gathered) do this via a text. That text only takes 5 minutes at most to compose and send. Let’s say he is the same or a slight variation of the text for 20 other women, that cuts the time for each text down to seconds. Eventually he’ll get a date with that.

If she hasn’t blocked Eric then it’s almost an invitation for him to reach out again.

Eric a Thursday night dinner would be appropriate.

I’m agreeing with Warasen here. You met her online and cut the date short so maybe she thought you weren’t interested when you actually met her. Then you ask her out for a 2nd date which she says she could possibly do on Sunday because you know she has weekend plans with her friends. So if you didn’t set up the time then, that’s on you, not her. You waited 3 days to reply there, why?

Sometimes you’re hungover and nauseous and feel like crap. You’re certainly not going to want to go on a hike or grab lunch with a guy you could be interested in. You want him to see you at your best.

Sounds like she felt bad for cancelling but then the date wasn’t formally set. I would set a date where you agree to the day and the time and don’t be so casual about it. If she’s too busy to schedule or blows you off then you’ll know.

I mean what do you really have to lose by asking again?

Go ahead and ask her one more time. If she isn’t busy or drunk maybe she will accept. Then quit trying. She has met you so if she is interested she will say yes.