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“Can I Get My Ex Back Or Is He Gone Forever?” Quiz

When a relationship ends either both parties end up hating each other, they continue to care for one another but acknowledge it will never work and move in their own directions, or one continues to pine for the other. The last scenario is always the most difficult (at least, for the one pining) and can make an already painful process even more brutal. Sometimes, however, these cases do come to a happy conclusion and the other person also decides the relationship is worth fighting for. But how can you know if this is the way your story will unfold?

You can spend years waiting for your ex to change his mind and show up at your doorstep with a bouquet of roses and a rom-com worthy declaration of his undying love. And if that doesn’t happen (which it most likely won’t since Hollywood endings only exist in Hollywood movies), then you’ll have to deal with the pain of having wasted so much time and energy that would have been better served in other areas.

Sometimes hope is not lost and there is hope for a reconciliation. You have to be smart about it though, if you go too far out on a limb the branch will break leaving you badly hurt.

When emotions run high you aren’t always able to see clearly. This is why we’ve created this “Can I Get My Ex Back?” quiz, to give you quantifiable results that will let you know what your odds are.

Take this super easy, super quick quiz to find out if you’re ex is going to come back or if he’s done forever.

As long as you answer honestly, you will get startlingly (even shockingly) accurate results and will know for sure if he is willing to give the relationship another shot.

Note: In order to receive your quiz results, we collect your email at the end of the quiz. Just wanted to give you a heads up so you know what to expect. :)

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Reply April 29, 2021, 10:40 pm


Please help me I want him back. I had that program and it was taken off my phone. I don’t have a receipt or when I got it.. I don’t have a credit card anymore. How can I get the program now. Please help me!!Thank you!! I am looking for answers I want him back.

Reply November 15, 2020, 11:03 am


I have aman that i loved since teenage unfortunately we went in different ways for years,we met again after three years & produced akid together. but for some time now he tells me he was preparing to get married to another girl in june 2020 because we separated for two years again. but now he says he loves me & want to marry me instead of the promised one. wat should i do coz i love him so much?

Reply May 3, 2020, 6:22 pm


I miss him so much. We broke up last week and i’m miserable without him. I cry every time I hear his name or think about him. He said that he doesn’t want to be in a relationship but I know he is going after another girl. I feel useless knowing i’m not the girl of his dreams. Now I don’t think i’ll ever move on from him ever. I’ve been through some breakups but this one scared me for life. Everyday my heart breaks. I’ll never love anyone the way I loved him :(

Reply February 14, 2020, 10:50 am


I know exactly how you feel we broke up on my birthday vacation about 6 weeks ago.. i feel like im going to die without him. Everyday my heart breaks to the thought of not being with him, what about the future plans we had together? I dont think i will love again

Reply February 18, 2020, 1:09 pm


I did the quiz and it says our probability of getting back is no and my current thinking and behavior is driving him away how do I do to fix this I need help please somebody

Reply October 9, 2019, 2:57 pm

Zizk Bae

I need ur help please
My boyfriend nd i broke up,it wasnt actually a break up
My boyfriend ask for space,which i can’t give him
we started quaraelling,he then went to tell my facebook motherthat ora

Reply September 24, 2019, 10:49 pm


hie, can you help me. Its been 4 months since l broke up with my ex, we had some misunderstanding, he then moved on with his ex. he once asked me to give him time to end things with that ex of his but because of the pain and frustration l refused, l had some time to think, l moved on as a way of getting him out of my life but the relationship didnt work. I still love my ex – I want him back. He thinks l hate him, he doesn’t text me, we rarely talk, l tried texting him but rarely replies. He got his new job in another town far from where l stay, the last time l called he said he had missed me, he would want a date when he is in town, but he came and said nothing. This was after a conversation l reminded him of how he humiliated and insulted me which l think is why he doesn’t want anything to do with me again, l really love my ex. what should l do l am confused. please help!

Reply April 3, 2018, 4:36 pm


My ex broke up with me last weekend it’s been hard Cos both of are family’s don’t want us together and I don’t no weather this is the reason or he just not happy with me anymore but we didn’t have argumeant or nothing when he broke up with me he was with his mates last sat and then I spoke to him on the sat he sounded confused said he loved me but then said where done then I message him off my old Facebook trying to speak to him and he just message me late last Sunday excusing me and saying where done again but not heard anything since I don’t no weather he met anyone else or just wants time with his mates but he said he loved me o just don’t get it anymore he block me off Facebook I don’t Evan no if he has a phone anymore just so upset

Reply March 16, 2018, 8:36 am


I am van vandy. fro united state base in London . I am a DJ. I think I can help you get your ex back. locate me on facebook to help you trust me you will get him back

Reply August 2, 2017, 6:17 am


hi here how are you doing, you and the family

Reply August 10, 2017, 10:24 am


Help me I need your help I’m so heartbroken

Reply June 22, 2018, 1:34 am


I want my ex back now he’s in a new relationship..iit hurts bad I had a heartattack because of a broken heart

Reply July 18, 2017, 5:11 am


We just broke up few days ago, I tried to talk him
I’am little jealous and high temper because of my work but he said he already if he say goodbye he will never going back, he broke me by texting only
I want to talk him to understand my side too.to know what exactly my fault.
Since the last few days I’m texting him but not get any reply.
What exactly I have to do?

Reply May 29, 2017, 9:41 am

Elena Flaherty

Thanks to Amanda, i try it and it works as mad, my Ex is back now, i am hoping we get married by December according to the way Scott keep saying it often that we have to get married and bare kids…. Dr odoma is my best experience this Year!!!!

Reply May 13, 2017, 7:28 am


My boyfriend break-up with me and I apologize him and convens him but he don’t want to be with me I love him a lot and want him back in my life desperately what should I do please help me I love him a lot .

Reply March 23, 2017, 11:08 am

Chandler Riggs Lover

Me and my ex have been broken up since 6th grade know i am in 7th grade we still talk and he says he still loves me but i told him that he has a girlfriend and i have a boyfriend but he never listens to me… its like he still wants to go out but he knows he has a girlfriend and he knows i have boyfriend

Reply February 3, 2017, 9:07 am

awesome someone

i broke up with my ex cos he suddenly changed and wasnt making any efforts as before so its like i was fighting for our relationship alone. few weeks later i got into another relationship which definately was a rebound and now am not in that relationship anymore but he is in a relationship. i have practised the no contact rule even before reading your article cos i just really needed sometime to think. he has currently started talking to me and three days ago he came to my house and we had a few to drink that led to confessing our feelings for each other again.we eventually got intimate that night and we it was like old times. he kept on saying that he doesnt want to lose me in the morning when he was not intoxicated anymore. i have to say i love him and any single minute and spent with him means the world to me. since that night he has made sure he sees me after work but i am sure that other woman is still there. if we had not broken we would be celebrating our fifth anniversary. i dont know whether to believe he loves me or he has changed or he is just jealous cos damn i tell you i look good and i had to make sure i always look good for when he sees me he regrets losing me. please advice me on what to do. i am confused

Reply November 23, 2016, 3:12 am


Hey sorry to hear about that but I am in the same situation I don’t know if I should believe him or not . What did you do please tell me . He says he doesn’t want to leave me but in the end I always end up losing him . He has confessed to me again . Please tell me what should I do ??

Reply March 30, 2022, 11:41 am

mary young

If you ever, even for a second, doubt my love for you, speak to me immediately. Don’t just sit there and start assuming things. Don’t just sit there and wallow in misery of our broken love. Don’t resort to these unreasonable measures. Just ask me. It’s my job to remind you that I do in fact love you every single day.

Reply August 12, 2016, 7:13 pm

dexter webb

I like wat i read.R u talking abt. broken love bc u all broke up?

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Reply July 18, 2016, 3:18 pm


My boyfriend of 10 years broke up with me recently due to me cheating on him, it’s one of the biggest regrets of my life. I found out days after we broke up he started sleeping with a co-worker and now he is convicted he’s in love with her? Meanwhile, I’ve been trying to get him back the whole time. He would sleep with me and tell me he wants to be with me and do the same with her. I’ll admit I haven’t practiced the “no contact” method at all, I’ve actually gone girl crazy, calling texting etc… The other part of this is before we broke up I was to move away for 3 months for work and since I committed to that I did so. A week ago after this 3 month saga he decided he wanted to be with me. He was going to move here with me and find a job until we went back. Well he saw her the day before he left and is now convinced he’s in love with her, he’s currently trying to find a way back home as soon as possible, he hasn’t even been here 24 hoursu…Is it possible for him to be in love with someone he doesn’t even know? I know he loves me and wants to be with me but is afraid of things going back to the way they were. I’m at a loss I don’t know what I’m fighting for anymore but I do want to be with him despite everything he has put me through these past few months.

Reply July 18, 2016, 9:22 am


Hi Eric,
I like your articles and need ur help. I’m a single mom in my 30s, Successful, independent, good looking and men hit on me all the time. My problem is I had an affair with my married best friend under the tag of “love” and I finally broke off when I realized it’s not what I want. It’s still very painful as we were friends since teenage! And it was beautiful moments as friends and when we were together so it was hard to let go but I do not wish to be the other woman. He still wants me to wait and give him time to sort things with his wife. I don’t know how to tell him I want to move on without hurting his feelings and how do I get back to dating field without any fear of men just wanting to have a sexual relationship. Please help.

Reply April 29, 2016, 10:19 am

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