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    FunkyMonkey

    So there’s this guy I’ve known since College and we became really good friends. Over the past few years we have had this real sexual chemistry but citcumstances always seemed to stand in our way. We finally got together a few months ago. We have exchanged really dirty snapchats and texts before, when he has had to go away for work. He is away at the minute and we have had a little dirty talk, mainly from my side with him sort of agreeing or making only some suggestions. I had sent him a lingerie snap but he completely ignored it – no return snap, no message. So I pretended I had been drinking to ask what I had sent in the hope that he would talk about it or tell me it was hot. He said it was good, and I said that I was wondering if I had sent him something really bad. He said “I wish you did”. So I did!! And again, he just ignored it. This was yesterday morning and he just didn’t message me or send a pic back.

    What does it all mean? Has he lost interest in me? ????

    #438727 Reply
    redcurleysue

    I would say that when a man does not even respond to pictures that he has asked for it is time to redust off the camera and find another audience.

    Find someone else who really appreciates art.

    #438730 Reply
    SthrnBelle

    I would be really careful before sending out someone dirty pix of myself and would most definitely not send them out to someone I cannot trust and that does not even reply to them! Forget this guy, stop sending him texts please, wait for him to initiate contact, perhaps he did not get the pix but this pic sending should be finished. If he does take up contact with you again then by all means pay attention to what he has to say. It is possible that he did not get the pix but do not start asking questions just let it all go for now.

    #438731 Reply
    FunkyMonkey

    I was careful, because they didn’t have my face in them and they were snapchat so disappeared after a few seconds. I’m just disappointed that this hasn’t worked out like before, because it can be a lot of exciting fun!

    #438740 Reply
    sarita

    Really..why on earth are u sending dirty pics to someone? Treat him with respect and he will treat u back with respect. You are humiliating yourself and him by sending such pictures. So he didnt reply. Nice guy, I must say. I like him.

    #438753 Reply
    Ashley

    since he isn’t saying anything in response to your pictures, stop sending them to him. if he can’t even say anything back then he is behaving like a jerk & doesn’t deserve them. cut off contact with him. if you keep sending him stuff he’ll just see you as desperate & won’t have respect for you

    #438774 Reply
    Vanessa

    It doesn’t see like he’s your boyfriend. You’re trying to hard. And I don’t think it was very smart to say you were drunk and therefore, didn’t know what you had done. Not classy. This guy will use you and not take you seriously. He’s probably realized that by now and that’s why he’s not as receptive. I don’t know you guys so could be wrong, so only way to find out is to stop contacting and sending him dirty pics. It will mess with your self esteem if he doesn’t respond.

    #438775 Reply
    Vanessa

    *seem
    *too hard

    #438777 Reply
    Lady T

    Hi Funkymonkey,

    I know there are lots of people who do the naked pic thing. I’ve never been into it, personally. I prefer that if a guy is lucky enough to see me naked, it be in person, but that’s just me. Don’t send him anymore pics. It does not seem to be his thing since he’s not really encouraging you to continue doing it. xo

    #438812 Reply
    Anne

    Please get some self esteem before your dirty grrrl pics wind up on someone’s Facebook page and it affects your ability to get a job or something.

    #523159 Reply
    virginia

    to be honest , my husband and i have a simlar thing going, cause he works aways from home, i dont see anything wrong with you sending pictures of your self to a man you care for, as for him not responding, i think you should be open and honest with him, you had said you both did this before and were both really into, let him know how it makes you feel when he doesnt respond. not in a whinny way or argumentative way but just clear the air,+ this should be done in person if possible or while skyping.or face time whatever you guys use, i myself do in fact send pics to my man, but i dont always get a response specially if i just sent without knowing if he was awake, but i dont just send them to get feed back i know he loves my body “even after 3 kids” and if you feel sexy why not send that moment to your man, you should ask or find out where you guys stand, because like the above people said you do have to be careful. are you in a relationship or is this you really wanting something and not seeing signs that he has moved on. be honest about you not being drunk as well. just let him know you how you were feeling when he didnt answer, and then again in the next day when you asked and he didnt say much, read him out and i wouldnt keep sending them, you should also ask yourself, am i doing this to get him, keep him or satisfy him, because if its to satisfy him then we dont need the your so hot blah blah, its for him to use when hes alone and thinking of you!!! some of the people that answered this were alil rude and if you people have never done this or even been in a situation where this would come up your feed back means little! make sure hes up next time you send some “when he starts wanting them again, if your going to continue this” we dont know who is around when there gone, there could have been a co-worker around or something ” hes not going to sound professional if hes speaking to you and says i loved your pictures rx lol in front of someone” and a mans “saying there good” is feed back though, if he didnt like them he would have said so. weigh the good and bad here and make your own decision , this is your life no one elses , i love dressing up in outfits for my hubby and sending racy pics, theirs a lot more then just pics and face time to keep a semi long distance relationship alive, another thing you should look up.is ways to keep it healthy, ways to make him think of you ” like sending coupon books he can use” while home and away” maybe some for just a rub down when hes with you and rub his feet lol or when hes away maybe coupons for doing things over “facetime ect” , also you guys could both rent the same movie and do skype and watch it at the same time while skyping to make it seem like your together, men want to know they are sexy and wanted as well in fact they are worse then woman when it comes to this because they dont talk about it AT ALL!! so dont feel bad, the more you respond to him and give him attention “without bugging him” will show him your there for him 100 percent, but that doesnt mean degrade yourself either,you deff need to find out if your dating or just a fling or friends with bennies like whats going on here
    peace love and happiness to you! dont let what people say ” or dont say” affect you,

    #523160 Reply
    Amy S

    Oh dear God no. You only exchange pics in an intimate way like this when you are solid in your relationship for a good while and exclusive. You will not entice a guy to you going about it in this way. You are telling him how cheap and desperate you are that he can have you on a plate without even as much as a date. Just remember him and his pals could be having a great laugh at your expense and snap chat can be screenshot do not be fooled. And no of course he isn’t interested if he was he would be calling you, texting you and taking you regularly out on dates. x

    #523161 Reply
    Vanessa

    Virginia – Going back to very old posts and giving advice may not be effective. Those original posters are very unlikely to see it (and likely no longer in the situation). And then other people see it in the recent topics list and join you in wasting time providing advice on an old post thinking it’s recent.

    Pay attention to dates, folks.

    #523162 Reply
    Hannah

    This is an old post, but Veronica, I think the difference is you are doing it within a marriage and keep things fun and lively between you. Funky Monkey was doing it with a guy she wasn’t in a relationship with to get his attention. Big difference!

    #760300 Reply
    P

    the thread’s really old but for anyone else who came here w the same problem I’ll try to share something actually useful and not thinly veiled slut shaming, esp since I send a lot of racy pics and texts to different partners

    if you send them randomly without a warning text (or Snapchat) it’s possible he might open it in public or forget to text you back. Just a possibility

    I’ve also had guys who’re just not comfortable with it, although they might show differently. You’ll be able to figure it out if their response is a little flat normally

    If you feel comfortable enough, or the guy is someone you can be honest with, ask him why he didn’t respond. I literally just did that right now as I’m typing this. Sometimes there’s a genuine reason, and he might end up reassuring you too (if he’s not a total douchebag, that is)

    Hope this helps

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