Why do they unblock you on everything but still don't respond to you?

Why are you reaching out to someone that made it very clear, they do not want to talk?

I don’t mean that to be rude but as a real question. To me, blocking someone is an extreme response. It says, “I do not want contact from you whatsoever”. Maybe s/he unblocked you because it seemed petty but they still maintain the feeling that they do not want contact.

You can’t make someone talk to you so your best course of action is to move on.

Why you chasing up a guy that has blocked you ? safe to say this guy is not interested and you need to move on and get your dignity back. Take his number out of your phone and move on. x

He’s shown you who he is, in very large letters & you still want to be in his circle… Why?

Oh so you’re not his ex? Still the same. Probably it’s just there’s no reason to keep you blocked, but no interest in talking.

why would you friend request someone who blocked you? HE sounds really immature. I would not want to talk to anyone who blocked me for something stupid. To each their own I guess.

Oh my youre not really one for taking a hint are you.

Exactly what I was thinking, Sun. Someone blocks me, they’re not getting a message from me and then this worry of why they haven’t responded. You told him if you don’t hear from him, you have your answer. So there’s your answer.

Seems you are still hurting that he went back to his ex. Seems you have feelings for this dude, and want to be in some kind of relationship with him.

You have given away your power and dignity by sending him that long drawn own out message. Regain it by moving on.

He may very well reach out to you when things are not good with the girlfriend, but you would only be helping him out of boredom.

I started talking to this guy I met on a dating app. He was visiting for a couple of days. We didn’t get to meet because he got busy with some work and he was traveling back the next day. We continued to talk after he left. I liked talking to him. He lives in another state. So after 2 weeks of texting, I asked him what was on his mind and if he is not really expecting something out of this then it is not worth our time to continue to text. Basically I wanted to know if he was interested or not as I was planning to visit him. He said he was interested and then a few minutes after that he blocked me on iMessage. I sent him a message on WhatsApp a few days after saying if he was not interested he should have just said that and ended things in a decent way, there was no need to block me. He didn’t respond to that. Then 3 weeks later he messaged on WhatsApp saying he didn’t block me actually but that I was behaving in a very impatient and masculine way. Truth is he did block me on iMessage. Now, I know I shouldn’t have responded to him but I did (yes I am a fool). I assumed he thought I was getting impatient because I had asked him if he was interested so in my response I just tried to clarify why I had asked him if he was interested. He didn’t respond to me. I waited for 3 days, no response, so then I told him it’s disappointing that he is someone who likes the drama of going silent and also lies. He read my message, didn’t respond and then deleted my number.
I am annoyed because I shouldn’t have responded to him when he messaged me. Also why doesn’t he just say he is not interested and end it as a mature human being or my expectations are misplaced? I am so tempted to msg him and vent out but I guess that won’t be a sensible thing to do :-(

there is this funny incident I must share. I interacted with a guy from another country who was down in my city for work purpose. we had a common ground bec the client he was servicing in my city, were my ex employers. we chatted a bit. but couldn’t get around to meeting. he couldn’t get the time. the next month he was in my city, he again couldn’t get time to meet. but thereafter he kept up with good morning messages. I thought that was silly. so told him that when he comes down to my city, hes too busy to meet. so is there any point to acting like my daily morning rooster and cooing good morning every day? he stopped messaging after that.

when I generally sent some forward some days later he told me o hey.. I thought you didnt want to keep in touch anymore. I told him nope. just that daily good morning messages wasn’t what I wanted. anyway to cut a long story short, he was in my city last week. and asked me if we could meet. On meeting him, it was ok.

we chatted for a couple of hours. and then he suddenly said he has a sudden concall which he must attend to. In an indirect way cutting the evening short. I was pissed. he made a move early on but I kind of didn’t lean into it. It was too soon. he probably realised I wasn’t going to jump into bed with him and so made some excuse to cut the evening short. I felt silly but the guy was a douche. when I got home I asked him what was that? he just blocked my number! I did say what I wanted to say by messaging him from my other number. just one message.

he blocked me on the other number as well. he just wanted a one night stand and when he realised that’s probably not gonna happened he blocked me.
just shrug it off and move on. you meet all sorts. if he has blocked you, and then unblocked you, let him then make the first move and take it from there.

u bet MN. this douche wanted to meet me despite not even knowing what I looked like. I found that strange. so told him. he infact told me doesn’t that also mean I am looking for more than looks? some depth as well in the woman? he caught me offguard. and I thought well yeah that’s good. but he turned out just like the rest.. hahah